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If you’ve been watching this channel for a while you might have realized that the most interesting and useful psychological tricks that we talk about are not taught in school. Good news is, that’s where we come in!

In this video, we’re going to cover 5 psychological tricks that can get you more of what you want from life, more easily. These are very useful in scenarios where you’re trying to persuade someone.


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0:20 - Trick #1: The word “but”.
1:28 - Trick #2: A double bind.
2:52 - Trick #3: Visualization.
4:53 - Trick #4: Framing.
6:28 - Trick #5: Scarcity.

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Very few people can control a conversation better than a comedian. They have arsenals of jokes that put rude people in their place and redirect the flow of conversation. Even when there isn’t a conflict, when a joke lands and everybody laughs - there is a period of space where you can redirect the conversation wherever you like.

In this video we are going to look at 3 specific types of jokes that Russell Brand uses to masterfully control a confrontation on MSNBC. We’re also going to see how you can use these same jokes to confidently steer conversation in your own life.


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0:41 - Joke #1: Unpointed wit.
2:38 - Joke  #2: Purposeful misinterpretation.
4:20 - Joke  #3: Sarcasm.

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Like it or not we have all been awkward at different points in our lives. Sometimes that awkwardness gets in the way of connecting with other people or even feeling confident in ourselves. Awkwardness doesn’t need to be the end of the line. In fact, if you handle yourself well you can turn awkwardness (whether it’s just a moment or a way of being) into confidence. Which is what we are covering in this video featuring Tom Holland.


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0:27 - Point #1: Adjust your body language.
4:05 - Point #2: Handle friendly teasing.
6:39 - Point #3: Tell your own embarrassing stories.
9:37 - Point #4: Let go of managing people’s opinion of you.

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Keanu Reeves has become the internet’s crush, whether he knows it or not. Normally on the channel, we cover extroverted celebrities, who charm in larger, obvious ways. What’s amazing about Keanu (aside from the fact that he’s 54 and looks 34) is that he is massively popular in spite of his reclusive and more introverted nature.

So in this video, we are going to explore why Keanu is so popular, and what you can learn to exude incredible charisma as an introvert.


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0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others.
2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence.
3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures.
5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type.
7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously.

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After watching an interview on Jimmy Fallon where Sophie Turner comes across as very charismatic, I started looking into doing a breakdown on her. I was surprised to find that she actually says she struggles in social situations.

On the second watch through, I noticed that hints of nervousness were present in that first Jimmy Fallon interview.  So in this video, we’re going to learn what it seems Sophie has learned: how to turn anxiety, shyness, and nervousness into charisma.


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4:34 - Strategy #1: Active listening
4:50 - Strategy #2: Mirroring
6:00 - Strategy #3: Elaborate on someone else’s idea
6:31 - Strategy #4: Make fun of your own shyness

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A recent Ben Shapiro interview has gotten a lot of attention. In case you haven’t seen it, Ben Shapiro got into a heated argument with BBC’s Andrew Neil, and eventually walked out of the interview.

Now, Ben is no stranger to these kinds of arguments, so it was surprising to see how many people thought that he lost, or was even quote unquote “destroyed.” So in this video, we’re going to break down what went wrong for Ben and talk about four things you can do to avoid any embarrassment in an argument.


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0:39 - #1: Body language & speech patterns
3:03 - #2: The way that you answer questions
7:32 - #3: Your mindset going into it
11:06 - #4: What matters is who acts like they are winning

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Today we are making a tier list of Game of Thrones characters ranked by their charisma.

Keep in mind that we are not judging charisma in modern day times, like who you would sit down and get a beer with. It's Game of Thrones charisma, which means: Are you persuasive? Do your plans work out? This might make you a wrong person, but you can still be highly charismatic.


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0:29 - F Tier
3:09 - D Tier
5:48 - C Tier
7:44 - B Tier
10:48 - A Tier
15:15 - S Tier

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Today we are talking about self-doubt. The particular self-doubt that gets in your head, maybe when you’ve gotten a promotion, or you just started dating someone that is a bit out of your league. It says: “You don’t deserve this, you shouldn't be here”.

This is called imposter syndrome, and unfortunately, it can make you self sabotage the thing that you just got so you fall back to where you feel comfortable, even though you were deserving of what you had. Which is why in this video, I will talk about three behavioral changes to CRUSH imposter syndrome.


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1:55 - Change #1: You will not overstate what you can do going forwards
3:32 - Change #2: Take honest stock of your past, then see if you can help
4:50 - Change #3: Focus on creating results for the people around you

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We all handle relationships in different ways. One powerful way to understand these differences is through the lens of Attachment Theory. According to psychologists, there are four main “attachment styles” which have a profound effect on our relationships.

In this video, we’ll break down these different styles using some iconic characters, and show how you can use this knowledge to improve your relationships with everyone around you.


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0:20 - Style #1: Avoidant
3:01 - Style #2: Anxious
6:03 - Style #3: Fearful
9:27 - Style #4: Secure

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A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing.

Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it.


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0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation.
1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell”
4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself.
7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter.
9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly

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Iron Man has some of the most savage moments in the entire Marvel Cinematic Universe. There is actually a consistent pattern between these moments that makes them so satisfying to watch, and so useful if you apply the lessons to your own life.

In this video we are going to be breaking down Iron Man’s most savage moments, so that you can learn to command respect in any situation.


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0:18 - Pattern #1: Iron Man is an expert at using humor
2:45 - Pattern #2: Iron Man is incredibly decisive
6:09 - Pattern #3: Robert Downey JR’s powerful body language

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While watching clips from the previous Game of Thrones breakdown, I came across some cast interview clips, and I could not help but notice how effortlessly charming Emilia Clarke was. Emilia displays a number of charismatic habits, though, while seemingly simple, are extremely powerful.

In this video, we are going to break down 4 of Emilia’s habits that make her so charming. These might seem very simple at first, but there are nuances that take them from ordinary basic advice to habits that can make you extremely charismatic if you hit the nuance.


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0:38 - Habit #1: ”Smile frequently (and genuinely)”
2:59 - Habit #2: “Build other people up”
5:29 - Habit #3: “Raise the energy in your interactions”
7:21 - Habit #4: “Be an active listener”

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Todays video is a fun one. I will be reacting to some cringe videos, and potentially see what we can learn from them!

Let me know what you think of this new style of video by leaving a comment down below!
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0:18 - Video #1: “Guy Awkwardly Trying To Pick Up Girls”
1:30 - Video #2: “Awkward Dating Show Moment”
3:19 - Video #3: “Girl Rejects Kiss”
4:45 - Video #4: “PewDiePie Handshake Fail on Conan O’ Brien”
5:40 - Video #5: “Leafs Bernier Calls Nelson Mandela One Of The Most Known Athletes”
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There are no classes in school that teach you how to flirt, and unfortunately what that means is that when you go out into the world to do it, sometimes some weird things can escape your mouth.

Which is why in this video, I will be giving you five things that you should NEVER say when flirting, as well as some things that you can say instead.
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0:16 - Phrase #1: “That person is…”
1:19 - Phrase #2: “That’s amazing!”
2:41 - Phrase #3: “Do you want to go out sometime?”
3:37 - Phrase #4: “Can I get your number?”
4:34 - Phrase #5: “You would look better if you…”
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Game of Thrones has kept its fans hooked for over 20 years. The excitement that I and millions of other people feel as season 8 approaches is a testament to the power of its storytelling.

In this video, I want to talk about 3 reasons its story is so genius, and show how those reasons predict how it all ends, based on the structure of the story.
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0:27 - Reason #1: Fiction often treats good & evil as uncrossing opposites
2:43 - Reason #2: Drama is built on the reversal of fortune
5:24 - Reason #3: Game of Thrones is a hidden Hero's Journey

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The first impressions that you make often hinge on the smallest of things. It can be a gesticulation or a choice of words. Your first impressions snap into place in just seven seconds. These judgments are influenced by a number of factors. Choosing the right things to say and do will affect your relationship with the person you are meeting with in a big way.

In this video, I want to share 5 phrases I hear all the time that can destroy your charisma. I will also give you some things that you can say instead, so that you can continue to make amazing first impressions, and become your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter the most!


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:23 - Phrase #1: ”Sorry for taking your time”
1:45 - Phrase #2: “Fine”
3:03 - Phrase #3: “Hey…”
4:06 - Phrase #4: “Nice to see you”
5:07 - Phrase #5: “Can I buy you a drink/coffee?”

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Sam Harris has been one of the world's most formidable debaters for nearly 20 years. Sam has gone toe to toe with other people we've covered on the channel, like Ben Shapiro & Jordan Peterson, and he has held his own.

In this video, we will break down 5 reasons Sam Harris is so excellent in his debates, and how you too can use these tactics to your advantage.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:50 Tip #1: Identify the premise
1:14 Tip #2: Apply your opponents logic to extreme situations
3:41 Tip #3: Use conciliatory statements
5:08 Tip #4: Frequently crack jokes
6:22 Tip #5: Use vivid, specific imagery

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This video seems quite hypocritical, especially on this channel.

Mainly because we talk a lot about impressing others, how to seem cool, confident and general tips to increase your charisma.

However, there is a fine line between genuine charisma and people pleasing, and the latter is exactly what we DON’T want.

So today, let’s dive into the subtle signs of people pleasing that you are likely doing so we can solve them and crush them for good!

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0:34 - Sign #1: Mismatch Between What You’re Saying And What You’re Thinking
1:43 - Sign #2: Setting Up “Covert Contracts”
2:53 - Sign #3: Difference In Behaviour Between Groups
4:18 - Solution #1: Listen To Your Internal Voice
5:12 - Solution #2: Be Creative In Expressing Your Real Self
6:05 - Solution #3: Pay Attention To Consistent Personality Traits
7:25 - How To Make An Amazing First Impression

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Mr. Beast has been blowing up the past year. He’s all over my suggested feeds.

He’s commonly known for ridiculous stunts like saying Logan Paul thousands of times or donating yearly incomes worth of money to streamers and strangers.

Today I want to show you Mr. Beast’s climb to success so you can get a better understanding of what it takes to get millions of views and subscribers.


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0:45 - Step #1: Put In The Work
1:38 - Step #2: Stop Trying To Find Shortcuts
3:21 - Step #3: Choose The Path That Interests You
4:00 - Step #4: He Makes His Content About Other People
5:50 - Step #5: He Invests In Growth

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There are people in this world that are looking to take advantage of you. Many of these signs are subtle and take a trained eye to catch them.

Today we will dive into the mind of a narcissist so you can learn what signs to look out for when meeting someone.


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1:23 - Sign #1: Obsessed With Their Image
1:56 - Sign #2: Lie About Ridiculous Things
3:27 - Sign #3: Different Relationship With Lying
7:03 - Sign #4: They Don’t Give Up On Their Lies
8:32 - Sign #5: They Will Dismiss You

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Dating certainly isn’t easy, and if you’re like me, you may have had made some mistakes in your dating life.

These are the mistakes that actually resulted in why my ex and I broke up… If I simply understand what I was doing wrong, chances are we still would’ve had an awesome relationship.

Since I’ve realized these common dating errors, it’s had a tremendous benefit on my life and I want to share them with you.


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3:57 - Point #1: Don’t Go Anywhere You Don’t Want To Go
4:23 - Point #2: Don’t Stick To Things That Are Safe
4:50 - Point #3 See If You Have Created A Split Personality

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Theo Von’s charisma is quite refreshing as it's not flashy. He doesn’t have to scream, say ridiculous statements, or do strange gestures.

He’s the antithesis of the dancing monkey; cool, calm, collected and charming.

Today I want to touch upon 3 points so we can understand Theo’s charisma and implement his tricks to better our social skills.

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0:50 - Point #1: Isn’t An Over The Top Attention Grabber
2:45 - Point #2: Active Listening
6:20 - Point #3: Non-Judgemental Authenticity

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What I’m about to say sounds pretty ridiculous…

But…

Stop changing people!


I don’t mean stop caring, stop having compassion and turn the other way when people ask for your help.

Quite the contrary.

It’s important to be empathetic, have compassion and help those in need.

However is it NOT your responsibility (and even within your capability) to change people.

They have to be willing to do that themselves.

Resources:
Yoga
Meditation
Surfing
Hiking
PD Seminars
Reading (fiction and non-fiction)
Volunteering
Connecting with family of origin
Isolation events (whether a tank or a cabin in the woods)
Vigorous exercise

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:20 - Story #1
2:20 - What People Need To Change
3:10 - Story #2
5:40 - Point #1: It’s Not Your Responsibility To Change People
6:35 - Point #2: Re-Try New Activities/Resources That You Abandoned
7:50 - Point #3: You Are Going To Make Mistakes
9:16 - New Channels Announcement
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My Favorite Non-fiction Books (besides those mentioned in the video; in no particular order)

1.Letting Go - David Hawkins
2. 6 Pillars Of Self Esteem - Nathaniel Branden
3. How to Win Friends And Influence People - Dale Carnegie
4. Essentialism - Greg McKeown
5. Predictably Irrational - Dan Ariely
6. The War of Art - Stevem Pressfield
7. Influence - Robert Cialdini
8. A New Earth .- Eckhart Tolle
9. Awaken The Giant Within - Tony Robbins
10. Radical Honesty - Brad Blanton


Buckle down and grab your self-development hat…

Today we’re going to BUST some myths.

It’s pretty interesting how counterintuitive the life advice given by our parents, school and society is. Today we will explore some of this advice.

If I didn’t break these beliefs, Charisma On Command wouldn’t have existed...

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0:44 - Myth #1: You Need Credentials
2:34 - Myth #2: Wealthy People Got Good Grades
4:25 - Myth #3: Unlimited Freedom Makes You Happy
5:50 - Myth #4: Your 20s Are The Best Time To Grind
7:35 - Myth #5: People Are Born Artists And Create Art When Inspired
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3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF:
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Jack Black posted 2 videos the past week and he’s literally taking over YouTube

With nearly 3 million subs in such a short period of time I felt obligated to explain why Jack is so entertaining and loveable

Today we’re going to explain Jack’s charisma!

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0:29 - Point #1: Comfortable With Himself
1:25 - Point #2: Displays and Accepts Weaknesses
3:07 - Point #3: Committed With His Actions
5:21 - Point #4: Very Comfortable Giving Compliments
6:38 - Point #5: Burns People As A Character
8:07 - Charisma University

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Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression:
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6 Types Of Charisma Women Find Irresistible:
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After a decade of researching charismatic individuals, I’ve narrowed down all the forms of charisma into 5 types

I’m going to share that with you today so you can see which one you fall into and why these types are charismatic

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0:34 - Type #1: Authentic
1:44 - Type #2: Self Assured
3:02 - Type #3: Empathetic
4:23 - Type #4: Energetic
5:30 - Type #5: Funny
6:55 - Charisma University

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Emotional intelligence is an interesting subject

What does it even mean to be “emotionally intelligent?”

I’ve gone through most of my life feeling pretty great!

I would never blow up on people and I’d hardly get angry

Yes I’d get sad here and there but for the most part I felt happy and excited

Although that was how I truly felt, the methods, mindsets and techniques I learned were simply unsustainable most of the time

So we’re going to dive into where I’m at now and dissecting the flaws of my past approaches

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00:40 - Point #1: Flawed Perspective: The Control Aspect
04:40 - Point #2: Suppressing Emotions Doesn’t Work Long Term
11:54 - My Skin Care Routine

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Lebron James is a legend and he never fails to impress the world with his next level plays

However, there’s so much more to Lebron than how he dunks and dribbles on court

Today we’re going to talk about Lebron’s charisma and mindsets and how we can learn from him as a leader


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0:22 - Point #1: Turning Challenges Into Motivation
2:12 - Point #2: Focus On Your Locus Of Control
3:06 - Point #3: Don’t Obsess Over Vanity Metrics
4:40 - Point #4: A Philosophy That Is System Oriented
5:34 - Point #5: Leaders Make It About Other People
6:44 - How To Make Amazing First Impressions

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I sometimes think back like “I wish I knew that at 20…” or “Imagine where I would be now if I took more action…” and “If only I bought bitcoin when it was $1…”

I’m sure you’ve all been there

This fueled the idea of today’s video

7 tips that I wish I knew when I was 20, now in your hands to implement!



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0:34 - Point #1: Constant Criticism About You Is Probably True
1:09 - Point #2: 90% Of Negotiation Success Is In Starting It
2:13 - Point #3: Scarcity Is Often A Sales Tactic
3:26 - Point #4: Arguing Over Life Philosophies Is A Waste Of Time
4:27 - Point #5: Value Experience Over Theory
5:37 - Point #6: Remove Lies Of Omission
6:36 - Point #7: Growth Comes When You Do The Opposite
7:59 - Foreign Channel Announcement

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Have you ever been confused on whether someone likes you?

Maybe you’ve been indirectly flirting, at least verbally, but have been blowing your cover with your body language

What are the signs?

Fear not, Charisma on Command is back again to slay the confusion dragon

Today we’re talking about 5 common indicators of interest!

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0:30 - Point #1: How The Person Breaks Eye Contact
1:13 - Point #2: How They Touch You
1:59 - Point #3: How They Touch Themselves
3:04 - Point #4: Where Their Body Points
4:26 - Point #5: How They Talk About Potential Admirers

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I know, we’ve finally reached the inevitable tragedy...

PewDiePie has lost the sub wars with T series.

Regardless, we all know who’s number one in our hearts!

Aside from the hot pursuit, today we’re going to take a look at how Felix’s charisma has grown, his use of clickbait, and how he’s trumped the big media scandals of the past.

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0:45 - Point #1: PewDiePie Is A Master Of Capturing Attention
1:54 - Point #2: PewDiePie Is Self Aware
4:31 - Point #3: PewDiePie Makes Content He Actually Likes
5:34 - Point #4: PewDiePie Seems Happier

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Picture this.

You're having a conversation, maybe with a friend, maybe with someone you just met.

It might be the case that you actually like the person you're talking to but the conversation is numbingly boring.

You might have something to do or you're just no longer interested in talking anymore.

You know it's time to exit.

But you don't want to be harsh or rude nor do you want to lie and come up with a fake excuse.

What are you supposed to do?

How can you leave the conversation without feeling like a bully or a liar?

Let's talk about it!




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0:38 - Part 1: Interrupt And Interject
0:58 - Part 2: Say What You're Going To Do
1:10 - Part 3: Say A Kind And Truthful Comment
1:31 - Scenario 1: Someone That You Like
2:22 - Scenario 2 - You Want To Move Along
3:17 - Scenario 3 - You're Not Enjoying It

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Sometimes we all say things, unfortunately, that can make other people judge us negatively.

This can really impact our social, business, and familial life.

It can truly be puzzling, especially when we’re unaware of what we’re doing wrong.

Today we’re going to shine some light on how we communicate, so we can clear the clutter that’s blocking our confidence!

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0:15 - Phrase #1: “Just”
0:51 - Phrase #2: “I was wondering”
1:13 - Phrase #3: “Is this guy bothering you?”
1:44 - Phrase #4: “Uh… Um… Like…”
2:09 - Phrase #5: “I’m sorry (but)”
2:40 - Phrase #6: “You probably don’t care (but)”
3:02 - Phrase #7: “My (...) is making me”

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Arguments can be real tricky at times.

We’ve all had that moment where we have great points and feel like we’re in the right, but once we start conversing and expressing our opinions we either look like a fool or a bully.

How can we effectively win an argument or a debate?

We’re going to breakdown some of Ben Shapiro's debate tactics and techniques so you can win an argument, even if you’re wrong.


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01:11 - Technique #1: Catching Non-Arguments
01:55 - Technique #2: Getting Emotional
02:40 - Technique #3: Pushing For Specifics
04:07 - Technique #4: Ben Knows His Arguments Inside And Out
06:02 - Technique #5: The Use Of Snuck Premises
08:35 - Technique #6: Moving From The Abstract To The Concrete
09:45 - Technique #7: Emphasize The Conditions That You Would Agree With Your Opponent

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I know we talk a lot about social dynamics, how to make great first impressions and creating fun conversations--but I don’t want you to feel like being alone is a bad thing.

It might be tough seeing your friends going out every weekend with their significant other while you hang out in your room on a friday night--but that’s life and there will be days and nights like that (and it's totally normal and okay).

So how do we be in solitude and not feel lonely?

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00:28 - Point #1: You Don’t Need People To Deal With Loneliness
01:33 - Point #2: The Prediction Spreadsheet
03:32 - Point #3: Doing Things That Don’t Make You Happy
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Shane Dawson is an absolute juggernaut right now.

Last I heard our attention spans were as bad as fish, how in the world is Shane able to keep the internet hooked and so engaged with his videos?

The past months he’s been releasing documentary style videos each being nearly an hour long.

At the moment he has nearly 19M subs and his view count on his recent uploads are equal to his sub count, in most cases, they’re more (which is a rarity on YouTube)

How is he scoring more views than full out high budget TV shows?

Here’s why Shane’s videos are so addictive.

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02:04 - Point #1: The Exposition
04:54 - Point #2: Fun
05:49 - Point #3: The Interview

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When I was studying abroad, I literally didn’t date for an entire year.

I wasn’t really that confident and found some parts of dating awkward.

Over time I’ve certainly grown out of my old introverted self, you can tell by all the extroverted dating advice that’s on the channel.

But I know you introverts out there still have this pain point, so let’s dive into it.


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00:17 - Tip #1: Logistics - Where To Meet Women
01:47 - Tip #2: Wear Your Interest On Your Chest
03:02 - Tip #3: Open-Ended Questions
03:24 - Tip #4: Elaborate Then Relate
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Today we’re going to talk about 3 traits that make you attractive in social circles, business and the dating world.

There has always been a clash of thoughts on these topics.

When I say “attractive man” and “dating” you commonly think “arrogant jerk no one likes”.

Even the word “attraction” has a lot of superficial connotations like material possessions.

No need to worry about buying a Lamborghini to fit into a business clique or buying 10 drinks for the lady at the bar.

What we’re talking about today is 100% free :)


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00:17 - Trait #1: Enthusiasm
02:50 - Trait #2: Decisiveness
04:50 - Trait #3 - Gesticulations

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Some of you thought Conor McGregor got to Khabib Nurmagomedov in the press conference prior to UFC 229 some thought he didn’t.  But almost no one seemed to think Khabib got in Conor’s head and I agree, so we’re going to stick to analyzing how effective Conor was in executing his pre-fight gameplan.  Though he may sometimes look outlandish and crazy, Conor is very logical about pursuing his 2 main goals: he wants to make more money and he wants to anger his opponent enough to disrupt their fight plan.  And have some fun while doing it

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Really interesting fights breakdowns of each person's style:

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Joe Rogan has the most popular podcast on the planet.  And I think a huge portion of that can be credited to the fact that his authenticity, especially in the face of conflict, is respected by a huge portion of his audience.

So in this video we’re going to talk about 5 things that you can do which will command respect in tough situations without acting like a jerk.

The first thing that cannot be discounted is that Joe Rogan is a trained fighter.  He knows how to defend himself physically.  So he’s more likely to speak up around people who act violent than you would be if you were afraid of getting hurt.

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We’ve heard this topic time and time again.

People’s lives transforming, some feeling like a Shaolin monk while others not really noticing anything.

If you’re like me, I would always get so bored when I’d try to meditate.

I never really got anywhere with it.

But you can’t just meditate for a few days, then say “meh has no effects, useless much”.

Maybe meditation can actually transform our lives, even if it’s a small change.

So I took it upon myself to try a 30-day meditation challenge and here’s what happened.


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00:34 - Point #1: I Started To Enjoy Meditating
00:52 - Point #2: The Type of Meditation Changes Your Results
01:31 - Point #3: Guided Meditation Gave Me The Fastest Results
03:10 - Point #4: Meditation Boosted My Athletic Performance
04:54 - Point #5: Revealed My Compulsive Addictive Thinking
06:01 - Point #6: Made Me More Comfortable Being Alone
07:17 - Point #7: Meditation Made Me Hallucinate

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I know you all have been hyped for this week’s breakdown.

Most of the footage we’ll be looking at is Jordan Peterson’s recent conversation with Sam Harris.

Now the problem is how do you go about having a productive confrontation, debate, discussion or argument without demolishing your relationship with the other person?

I’m sure, at some point, some of you have been in that agitating scenario where your arguments and points have been taken out of context and the other person you’re arguing with is making you feel like a fool.

Nobody likes to feel like they’re wrong.

So today we’re going to talk about 5 points that will help you be the bigger person in your future debates and how to come out knowing more than you did before!


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01:01 - Tip #1: Lay Out The Points of Agreement
02:58 - Tip #2: Clarify The Other Person’s Perspective
04:02 - Tip #3: Establish Your Good Intentions
05:01 - Tip #4: Separate Your Views From Your Ego
07:26 - Tip #5: Not Identifying With Your Perspective & Winning Mindset

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Sometimes, we all say things, unfortunately, that can make people judge us negatively. And in this video, I want to talk about things that make you come across as lacking in confidence because these phrases are arrogant. As you may know, it's the most arrogant people who are oftentimes the most insecure. So I'm gonna give you five phrases in this video that will make you come across as lacking in confidence and what you can say instead to not come across that way. The first phrase is "Obviously." Also related to "Obviously" is, "Oh, that's not hard to tell" or "I already knew that."

Now, of course, you can use these phrases in other areas of your life but if you find yourself saying this after someone has told you something that they thought was novel and interesting to you, you are essentially dismissing what they said. You're saying, "Your perspective has nothing new to add. I already knew that. It was so obvious to me and I am so smart for having known this before you told me." Now, what should you do in the scenarios where someone is telling you something that you already knew? You put yourself on the same path as them; you are two learners.

0:24 Saying the phrase, "Obviously" as a reply
1:28 Coming across as arrogant when giving advice
2:34 Using the word "real" like it's absolute
3:20 Disagreeing with someone by starting with "No, but..."
4:53 Assuming that your life is more difficult than someone else

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How to Handle Small Talk as an Introvert — Kanye and Jimmy Kimmel Breakdown

We look at the Kanye-Kimmel interview today and do a break down on how to handle small talk especially if you're an introvert. Small talk can be a pain for some people especially introverts. Now, there is nothing wrong with light and playful banter and we've covered that in other videos but in this video, we are going to discuss how anyone including introverts can become a master of quickly moving through small talk to something more. And for some people, it's going to come as a surprise that I am featuring Kanye West in this video. To be clear, I'm not saying that Kanye West is necessarily an introvert.

Kanye may not be an introvert but in his most recent interview with Jimmy Kimmel, I did see a number of behaviors that are typical of an introverted type that doesn't really want to engage in small talk. And I thought that this could make a good jumping-off point for the topic. First off, small talk can be difficult for people because they don't know when to participate. If they aren't asked a question, they feel like they shouldn't speak up and then the dreaded awkward silence ensues before the other person excuses themself. In reality, there are almost always subtle openings and invitations to join in.

1:00 Notice subtle openings for you to share your thoughts
2:15 Respond with an open-ended statement to keep the conversation going
3:00 You don't have to answer questions if you want to talk about something else
4:11 Pause to create opt-in points for others
5:22 Try to get to a conversational topic you both care about

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The thing that gets in most people's way of achieving their hopes, goals and dreams more than anything else in their entire life is, paradoxically, themselves. And the problem is that they can't see how they're doing it because they lack self-awareness. Now, this is a question that I wish I got more often — "How do I be more self-aware?" — because without self-awareness, you can't see your own failures and shortcomings and you'll have no way to catch your own blind spots which means that in certain areas of your life you're gonna run in circles giving rationalizations and excuses for why you're stuck and missing the real point which is why in this video I want to give you some mindsets and exercises to increase your level of self-awareness and get out of your own way.

The first mindset that is absolutely essential is to recognize that in your life, the person who is most likely to lie to you beyond anyone else is yourself. We have some very, very complicated booby traps up here; we have ego defense mechanisms that want to keep us — A — safe from a survival perspective but B — safe from a self-image perspective. So if we get evidence if we behave in a way that doesn't suit our self-image and we don't like the story that it creates about us, we tend to discount that evidence.

0:39 You're more likely to lie to yourself
1:39 Put honesty before integrity
2:30 Give yourself permission to live in paradox
5:30 Go to people you know well
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Logan Paul and KSI are set to box in an event that may be the biggest in internet history. And in this video, we are going to explore the mental side of this fight including who is behaving in a more dominant manner and who appears to think that they are going to win. But before you can understand all the real importance of KSI-and-Logan smack talk, you need a basic understanding of frames. Now, this is something I've discussed in a video on Tyrion Lannister from Game of Thrones and you can check that out in the description but basically, a frame dictates the rules and context of any interaction. So two people may enter an interaction with different frames but usually, the frame that is held more strongly will change the other one. For a concrete example this, just watch the master of frame control, Conor McGregor.

Now, frame control isn't just duped out with words though; you can see frames clash simply with body language. Johanna here goats Rose Namajunas offering the frame that she should have a typical dominant style stare-down. And of course, Johanna wants to win that display of dominance. But Rose does not enter that dominance frame; Rose doesn't flinch.

00:25 Frame dictates the rules and context of any interaction
02:00 Consider the eye contact and body language game
06:00 Be composed and collected
09:50 Steel your nerves before the interaction
10:44 Define how you would like to behave before the interaction

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Today, I want to share with you what I think is the biggest reason that good relationships turn bad and I'm doing this because I want to help you because I get a lot of messages and I've experienced this myself of the pain when you are in a relationship and it is struggling. Or sometimes, even worse, when you wish hadn't ended; it can be very devastating. And so I want to share what I've sort of seen and learned in order to help you if you're in a relationship and perhaps navigate down a different path. And if you're not in a relationship, in your next one, hopefully, you can get it started on the right foot because what I'm sharing with you I see as the underlying reason that relationships go bad is, yes, there's cheating, there's distrust, there's resentment, and all that stuff builds up but I think it comes from a soil — the wellspring

The myth that someone can come make us happy, which is so powerful, because we start from a place of feeling a deep black wouldn't be something that was at all able to be sold to you if you didn't feel like you were incomplete to start with.

04:10 A marketed myth in America about relationships
07:13 And Charlie's answer to that
09:45 Epic relationship questions you should check out
10:52 Action guide whether you're dating and in a relationship or just had a breakup

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In life, the smallest actions can sometimes have the biggest results and that's why in this video we are going to explore five simple habits that can completely change your life for the better in just a few minutes a day. Number one is doing the scary thing socially; this transformed my life. You see, I was extremely shy up until I was about 20 years old and I only broke out of it when I started asking myself, "What am I afraid of doing right now?" At first, it was little things like saying one extra sentence to a cashier to make that interaction more human then it was asking a stranger for directions — maybe a recommendation of where to eat in a new area of town.

Eventually the scary thing was sharing everything that I've learned here on YouTube. And terrifying as the judgement was, it turned out to be one of the best things I ever did. So wherever you are, from super shy to incredibly confident, lean into your personal social fears. You're gonna see a massive gain in your self-esteem and you'll probably attract amazing new people into your life. The second life changing habit is defining your ideal before you get realistic.

0:11 Do what scares you socially
0:56 Defining your ideal situation before your realistic situation
1:55 Meditation can also help preserve relationships
2:44 Cut out even the little white lies
3:37 Stop always listening to sad songs and ones that don't bring positivity

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Oprah Winfrey has a superpower. For over 30 years, people who speak to her have not been able to help but to open up, sometimes crying, expressing joy, or just showing the most vulnerable parts of themselves. That ability propelled Oprah to a net worth of four billion dollars not to mention launching books to the top of the bestsellers list and Dr. Phil's television career. So in this video, we are going to explore how and why Oprah is the best connector that I have ever covered on this channel. And you're gonna learn how to live so that people will naturally find themselves opening up and connecting with you. First off, Oprah sets the stage to connect literally.

Unlike many other TV show hosts, she is famous for walking the aisles of her studio audience and for sitting on the same couch as her guests. Later on, she would actually go into their homes for intimate interviews. Now, the lack of physical barriers such as a desk tends to make two people feel more connected and that's why you are more likely to find a spark on a first date if you sit adjacent to your date rather than being separated by a table.

0:33 Set the situation so connecting is easy
1:17 Connect physically and emotionally
2:58 It's easier to open up if there's eye contact
3:29 Actively listen and paraphrase accordingly
4:38 Call out whenever there are commonalities

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Every single day, we do something that are fantastic for our confidence and we do others that aren't so good — they drag it down and destroy it. The problem is we can't always tell which of those is which. And that's why in this video, I want to show you five very common behaviors — some of which I bet you are doing — that are secretly destroying your confidence because if you can remove these from your life, it's dramatic how your self-esteem and your confidence will skyrocket. So the first one that I've had a very, very first hand experience with was staying in a situation that you really dislike.

Now, it's obvious that you're not going to want to stay in a situation you dislike by definition but it actually destroys your self-esteem when you do that. And I realized this back in the day when I had my first job as a consultant. I didn't love it, it wasn't horrible but when I got up in the morning, I felt like I was faking it; I felt like I was putting on the suit pretending to care about something that I didn't really care about. Simultaneously, I found myself feeling less confident myself; I was starting to doubt myself.

0:24 Staying in a situation that you really dislike
2:20 Focusing intensely on practice
3:54 Belief that a certain person's approval will make you happy
4:58 Disqualifying yourself verbally before doing something
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How to Think Faster Under Pressure

High-pressure situations are, unfortunately, absolutely inevitable. Whatever it is that you want, oftentimes, it comes after a high-pressure situation. Whether it's an interview, a networking event, or a date, it's those times where we really would like an outcome that we feel the most pressure. And unfortunately, all too often we go home kicking ourselves saying, "Why did I say that and why didn't I just say that other thing?"

So that's why, in this video, I want to help you think more sharply and more quickly in those high-pressure situations so you don't wind up at home kicking yourself and instead you are celebrating your big win. The first thing is to initially recognize that high-pressure situations caused us to do the exact opposite of what we would if we were going to do things well. And what that means is that when somebody approaches you at work and they're being hypercritical, what is the instinct? It's to shut down and close off. If somebody walks into a room that you really would like to speak to whether it's a mentor or a date, the instinct is to have your heart race, breathe really shallow, then go, "What do I say? What do I say? What do I say?" We need to do the opposite of these things physically.

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0:32 Change your state by doing the opposite
1:59 Know what to say in any high pressure situation
3:31 Know your framework
6:57 Summary on how to deal with high pressure situations

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The ability to influence mass media is an actual real life superpower.  The Kardashians for instance, have earned over a hundred million with that power

But by far the best media influencer I have ever seen is Donald Trump.  While other people get buried by scandal, he thrives on it.  Trump won the presidency through a hailstorm of media scandals that really, no one else could have come through  despite spending only slightly over half (55%) what Hillary did on his campaign  That was because Donald was able to get the media to influence votes towards him for free - despite the fact that many outlets were trying to do the exact opposite.
That’s why in this video we’re going to talk about why Trump is able to thrive in today’s news media environment.

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07:55 Don't waste too much time defending yourself
09:28 Quickly counter-attack with vivid imagery
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Earning respect takes time. This is something that you build over years of being honest, having integrity, and showing your character But that said, there's a couple things that you can do that really do create respect immediately. And that's why in this video, I want to give you seven things that you can do today to create respect right now. Now, don't think of these as replacements for actually developing stalwart character. But think of these as guidelines to help get you there.

The first one is defending your time because when people don't respect your time enough to give you a heads-up when they're going to be late beforehand and this is a first interaction it means that they likely don't think very much of you and it's not gonna go well regardless so just get out of there. And this is very important in dating; defend your time — don't always be available, don't sit around waiting for someone to call... Now in friendships and work or any area where you have an ongoing relationship, of course you'll be late, people will be late and sometimes they might forget to text; it happens. But if it becomes a habitual thing, the right thing to do

0:26 Our first psychological trick, defend your time
1:40 Second trick to get respect is to pause
2:15 Gesticulate and take up space, use body language
3:03 Finish your sentences strongly
4:25 Display social courage
6:36 Share your values
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We talk about Alpha or Alpha M: how to sell anything.  The sales pitch not only applies to selling. Whether you like it or not, you are selling yourself all the time. Job interviews, dates, meeting with potential friends, people have to decide whether to invest their time and energy in you or not which is why it can be incredibly helpful to study sales not just for those occasions where to actually have a product to sell but for all the other times when the product is actually you. And that's why in this video, we are looking at Alpha M. who is probably the single best salesman that I have seen on YouTube. And apparently, his numbers bear that out.

Whereas other channels struggle to integrate sponsors in a way that doesn't get pushed back and hate from their audience, Aaron has a promotion in almost all of his videos and his audience seems to love it, they meme about it and they buy in droves. So today, we are going to look at what you can learn from Alpha about selling especially when you're selling yourself as we so often have to like in a date or an interview scenario. And keep in mind this is not the only way to effectively sell; it's just some of the things that Aaron does really effectively.

1:06 Build rapport
2:54 After building rapport, you can now give recommendations
4:42 Demonstrate the result and the product
5:57 You're really selling yourself and the product is just a part of it
8:00 Be congruent with what you're saying

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Hey, guys! Here's another video for you on how to handle toxic people from friends to family members and just shut down that negative behavior. There's times when it feels like all the charisma in the world just won't stop one person from ruining your day. Now, maybe this person is a complainer, maybe they are a whiner, or maybe there's someone who is verbally abusive to you but whatever it is, they have this toxic pattern of behavior and it's really starting to bring you down.

That's why in this video, I want to talk about how to handle difficult toxic people in a way that is charismatic. You need to separate from a toxic person because what's keeping you close to them is not something that ought to. When I've talked to people and they have left, no one has ever regretted it; you would be shocked how much you can be dragged down by a negative person in the workplace.

3:21 Think concretely what you want a toxic person to change
1:25 Find the timing to approach a toxic person
1:53 Give them a sense that you're approaching them differently this time
4:47 Ask permission to remind them gently if they do the negative behavior again

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These are the six mindsets that will make you charismatic and magnetic! We talked about it on the channel about the the eye contact, the body language, and the tonality that conveys charisma but behind all of those things, there are mindsets. And the mindsets are so critical because when you have them in line, all of a sudden, you don't really have to think about the eye contact as much and it just happens and your body flows naturally and your tonality is on point. So in this video, what I want to do is cover these six most important mindsets that will make you magnetic and this is a topic that I've covered before but today, I am very happy because we have the help of After Skool to animate this and make it much more interesting updating it for 2018.

And those mindsets are, starting with number one — no matter what, I will be okay. In my opinion, this is the most fundamental mindset to charisma because so many people live their life wrapped in this sort of mental loop of what-if questions. "What if I speak up and my boss doesn't like my idea? What if I asked this girl on a date and she says no? What if I'd leaned in for a kiss and even worse, she ducks away?" "What if I were to ask this person to go just as a friend out to coffee and they said, 'I was busy that day'?" All of these sorts of things stop people from acting, from speaking up, and from expressing who they really are.

0:35 No matter what happens, you will be okay
2:17 Care more about your character than your reputation
3:19 Have impeccable honesty and impeccable integrity
5:28 You don't need to convince anyone of any particular belief
7:39 Start communicating your purpose more proactively
9:00 The last mindset is that you need to start going first

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This is a video on why we love people who hurt us! Just what is it that makes someone love you and not someone else and what does it make you love that person back as opposed to every other person in the world? On the channel, we talked a lot about the general things that you can do from a charisma perspective like eye contact, tonality, and body language that make you more attractive to people generally and I'll throw up a video on body language of attraction right there. But that doesn't answer the question of why you tend to have a specific blueprint for the type of person that you are interested in. And it doesn't answer the question why you might fall so hard for someone and your friends cannot see what it's all about or vice versa — your friends fall hard for particular individuals and you don't get it.

So in this video, what I want to do is explore your individual blueprint — why is it that you like the people that you like and why is it the people who like you are drawn to you? And I hope not just to get you this blueprint but an entire new realm of thought awareness and development that you can step into because I've found this to be very profound in my own life

01:01 Love and attraction are involuntary
01:37 They remind you of your childhood caretaker
10:01 Charlie gives tips on how to explore this

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Jordan Peterson has hundreds of hours of interviews and lectures on YouTube but with so much volume it can be tough to distill the essence of his life philosophy. And to make things even more difficult, he sometimes uses abstract language like this. It's within the individual that redemption can be... manifested, let's say. And even in so far as the state is concerned because the state's proper functioning is dependent on the proper functioning of the individual rather than the reverse, most fundamentally.

That is actually the most concise explanation of his life philosophy that I've heard but what does it mean concretely? Well, today we're going to break down the three things that you should and should not in order to live an exceptional life according to Dr. Peterson. And I'm going to simplify as best as I can in order to keep this simple to understand; forgive me for that Dr. Peterson. Also, at the end, I'm going to get some concrete actions to you that you can take today in order to move forward on each point.

0:56 Fix yourself before you fix the world
2:14 Tell the truth
7:14 Refusing to acknowledge your "shadow"

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We often see the sarcastic moments of Ryan Reynolds, the actor of Deadpool, and in this video, we talk about how to use sarcasm without looking like a jerk. Sarcasm is one of the toughest types of humor to pull off. When executed improperly, it can leave people angry at you as often as it leaves them laughing. So in this video, we are going to take a look at the king of sarcasm, Ryan Reynolds, a.k.a. Deadpool.

So how do you use sarcasm without leaving people angry or hurt? Well, if you're going to do it it cannot be a one-off potshot; otherwise, it feels like a pointed attack. So getting in the habit of joking all the time even in semi serious moments helps signal to others that your statements are usually to be taken in jest. We also talked about this at length in our video on Chris Pratt so check it out as well!

0:34 Get into the habit of joking even in serious moments
3:17 Lessen filtering words to blurt out and experiment
5:16 Making yourself the buttt of your sarcastic comments helps
6:09 Still utilize compliments so as to not look like a total jerk

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7 Red Flags In Dating You Should NEVER Ignore

One of the difficult things about dating is that sometimes people put a version of themselves forward that doesn't correspond to who they really are. So you can start a relationship, think you're dating this wonderful person and find out after several months that that's in fact not the case. And that's why in this video, I want to give you seven red flags that you absolutely need to be aware of to avoid dating someone that you don't want to be with. And this is true of both men and women and I'm gonna focus on things that aren't so obvious and not just jealousy or clinginess — things that might be happening that you're not noticing that if you did, you could save yourself a lot of pain.

So the first thing is that if the person that you are dating has friends that you don't like, chances are the person you're not like. dating is someone you eventually will Now, of course you want to treat them as an individual, right? You're saying, "They're not like their friends. They don't have these qualities so why should I ascribe to them qualities that I see in these other people?" And if that's a wonderful feeling but the truth is we are all products of the five people that we hang out with the most. We're like our friends especially if we spend a lot of time with them.

0:37 Check out the friends of the one you're dating
1:20 Check out how they treat waitstaff or service people
2:17 Be wary when they tell secrets that aren't supposed to be told
3:18 They're heavily engaged in social media
4:33 They had short-lasting relationships
5:38 They put all the responsibility onto  their ex when they broke up
7:05 They have the idea of their partner being perfect

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Today in this video, we share six tips of psychological tricks to make people like you immediately. We don't always realize it but it is often in very small moments that people decide whether they like us or whether they don't and that is why in this video, I want to give you 6 things that you can use to make people like you immediately. Starting with the first one, a very specific type of compliment because you're not going to compliment people on what they have, you're going to compliment people on what they've earned and worked for.

The truth about compliments is, yes, it feels amazing when people compliment us; of course, we like that. But when it comes to compliments, it often turns out to be that people are hearing the same ones over and over. For instance, maybe they have really nice eyes or they have a good sense of style and when they start to hear that over and over, it can become something that doesn't mean much to them. If you can be the person that finds out what they are working on and notices that while they're still working and struggling and then compliments them on that, it will hit them so hard.

0:19 Compliment people on what they've earned
2:05 Get them to talk about what they love
3:09 Share a truth that is to your detriment
4.56 Open body language
5:47 Exceed expectations without asking permission
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Today, I share with you my first Ayahuasca experience that's changed my life. This is a story of the one and only time that I did ayahuasca and I thought about not putting this on the channel but quite frankly, I think that the insights are important enough that I couldn't not share them even though this subject matter is a sensitive one because it has left me and the people that
I've been able to share these exercises with feeling more joyous, more energetic, and more positive in their life and I didn't want to hold that back.

So the reason that it's a sensitive subject is because ayahuasca is a hallucinogenic plant / habit-ending drug — or how you want to categorize it — that comes primarily from the Amazon rainforest. It is illegal in the United States of America but tribes indigenous to the Amazon have been using it for a long time in rituals and ceremonies and increasingly, Westerners have participated as well. So you should know that I did not go into this lightly; I went into this very, very deliberately. In fact, the reason that I did it was because I'd had a breakup and I was struggling and I'd had a number of friends tell me that this was something that was in the right time to do and I said, "Okay," but I'm not the type of person to do drugs of any kind. I've never smoked a cigarette, I don't drink caffeine these days, I've never done anything with weed or beyond that, and I don't even drink alcohol I except for a glass of red wine before bed.

02:00 Charlie's reaction Ayahuasca
05:00 Start of Charlie'e life changing realization
12:00 There's always an inner child in everyone

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Mark Zuckerberg is having a rough time. Not only does he have to deal with congressional hearings but it seems like a good portion of the internet hates him or at least doubts his humanity and it isn't because of the Cambridge Analytica scandal; it's because of the way that he presents himself. So in this video, I'm going to show you the kind of sad reason why some people are just harder to trust than others and it's easier to write them off as potentially evil and it's why negative reputation is just seem to stick to them no matter what they do. I'm also gonna help you find out if you are losing trust without even realizing it plus teach you what to do to get it back. So first off, as a principal, we humans like and trust people who show us that they have nothing to hide.

And this isn't just metaphorical. Seeing the inside of someone's hand — seeing their palms tends to put people at ease. The handshake actually originated as a way to show that neither person was carrying a weapon. But Zuckerberg almost never shows us his palms when he speaks which winds up feeling unsettling. First, let me say this — I care deeply about the democratic process and protecting its integrity. Facebook's mission is all about giving people a voice and bringing people closer together.

0:33 We trust people who show that they have nothing to hide
1:09 Your smile is key to improve your charisma
2:42 Congruence is another key that Mark Zuckerberg lacks

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These three tips of mindsets that will change your life will be discussed today, courtesy of Tim Ferris! Whether you realize it or not, every action that you take is generated by your mindset. And those actions add up to give you the life that you have which is why, in this video, we're going to cover three counter-intuitive mindsets for changing your life and this comes straight from Tim Ferris whom I'm a huge fan of and I'm going to tell you how I used these to change my life. But before we get into it, one little thing, stick around to the end because we are making a hire at Charisma on Command; I'm going to tell you about that and how you can make some money for referring that person. Here's what Tim has to say about it.

"I find that levels of success in almost any industry or area correlate to a person asking great questions. In some cases, they seem absurd. In fact, the hallmark, in a way, of great questions is that it sounds completely ridiculous."

0:28 First mindset is to ask ridiculous questions
2:25 Tim Ferris talks about fear-setting
5:16 Set one thing that will make the entire day a win

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We show you all the six types of charisma in MCU that seems so irresistible to women. One of the most common misconceptions of charisma is that one size must fit all. The truth is that while there are some high level tips that everyone should follow, there are lots of different styles that you can adopt for success in charisma and in dating. So in honor of the release of Avengers Infinity War, we are going to look at six types of charismatic leading men and the pros and cons of each style then you can decide which style suits your personality best.

A few caveats before we begin. One, yes, all of these guys are extremely handsome actors and absolutely, women will be drawn to them because of their looks. Still, there is value to be had for the rest of us in analyzing their personalities because they really are some of the most charismatic people I've seen. Second, I am NOT saying that each actor is always the type shown in this video. It's more about the habits that I've frequently seen in their interviews; and three, these aren't the only types of attractive behavior. There's others but I couldn't find MCU actors that represented them well so we might get to them in other videos

00:58 Robert Downey Jr being The Cool Guy
02:30 Chris Evans being The Giver
04:02 Chris Pratt being The Goofball
06:43 Sebastian Stan being The Suave
09:04 Anthony Mackie being The Attention Grabber
11:07 Tom Holland being The Storyteller

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How To Crush Any Interview

These are great tips on how to crush any interview to get the job! One of the moments in your life where you are absolutely going to want your confidence and your charisma to be on point is when you are sitting in an interview chair because when you've arrived there, they've decided that you have what it takes to get this job but you still have to show the person across from you that you're someone that they like, that they could work with, and that you can communicate the skills that make you a good fit which is why in this video I want to show you exactly how to prep for and crush any interview and that includes answering specific questions like, "Tell me about yourself? What's your greatest weakness and tell me about a time when..." so we're going to jump right into it; I got a lot to say. The first piece is on mindsets.

The number one thing that screws people up when they get in interviews besides having not prepped, and you're here so congratulations for that, is that they just get tongue-tied — their confidence is gone — because they're putting so much pressure on the situation. And in order to alleviate this, what I recommend you do and that they do is to zoom out. Imagine yourself at 90 years old. You're looking back at your life. You see the successes, the failures, the happy moments, the sad ones, and I promise you, as you do that and you scan for the most pivotal moments in your life that we're hyper critical, you will not see the interview that you have coming up; there's no chance. It's just not going to crack something that absolutely changes the inevitable course of your life

00:37 Your mindset during an interview will get you the job
01:51 Preparation before an interview is another key to get that job

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In this video  we have three tips to achieve success and improvement as shown by Elon Musk!  In five hundred years, we may look back and say, "Elon Musk was the single most influential person of our entire century." He has been able to do more in his 46 years than most of us could hope to do in ten lifetimes and yes, part of that is because Elon is incredibly smart and he works incredibly hard. ...and we're so hot up; we had just one computer so the website was up during the day and I was coding at night. ...work hard like it mean every waking hour; that's the thing I would say if your particular if you're starting a company. But working 100 hours a week still only puts you at two-and-a-half times as much as the average employee.

And most geniuses do not make the international impact that Elon has. In fact, the man with the highest IQ in the world, Chris Langan is a bouncer. So while smarts and work ethic are critical to Elon's success, in order to impact the world, you simply have to be able to influence other people; there's no way around it. That includes employees investors and the public at large and Elon Musk is unique here because on this channel, we can normally point to a leader's ability to nail a public speech.

02:15 Elon perseveres despite a lot of failures
05:05 Elon has a vision that inspires

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First off thanks to Tim Ferriss and his podcast with Dr Gabor Mate for inspiring me to share this.  Also thank you to Kurzgesagt In A Nutshell for being one of the first to introduce me to the concept of addiction as something other than to hard drugs.

So this is a topic that I've been thinking about for over a year and a half at this point and I didn't want to share because I didn't know exactly how I was gonna cover it and my thoughts in many ways are still unclear but I recently heard a podcast from Tim Ferriss with Dr. Gabor Maté and they talked about addiction and new paradigms around it so I feel like it's the right time at this point to talk about my experience and what I think might as well be your experience too.

I believe we live in a highly addicted world.  I think addiction drives most people’s lives.  It certainly has with me and I believe you fall into that category as well.  I'll explain why

05:36 Money or work
06:13 Fitness
06:54 Relationships
13:04 Nature

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We grow up being told that if we want to be liked, get a date, get sales or a promotion, that it’s based on who’s the most qualified.

But qualifications aren't always what influence people.

I first saw that when reading Dale Carnegie's How To Win Friends And Influence People and Robert Cialdini book Influence.

Call it persuasion, influence, manipulation, it's all about learning how to sell (an idea, a product, or yourself) in the best way possible.

So in this video I’m going to go over 3 "how to influence" tips that have NOTHING to do with your credentials OR what you say.

These can help you be more likable, get a date, and be more successful in business or sales.

ALSO

The words "manipulation" and "persuasion" have become dirty words in today's society, but in this video, I just mean them as synonyms for "influence".

These are harmless, ethical ways you can sway someone to give you a chance (both in business and socially) so that your true merit can actually shine through  :-)

0:29 How to game the Stereotype Content Model to influence people to like you more (whether it's to get a date, make friends, or sales)
2:26 How to influence what they think about BEFORE they think about you or what you are asking for (from Robert Cialdini's book Persuasion)
4:08 Does what you hold in your hands impact your ability to get a date or successfully sell?

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Once you graduate, it can be very hard to figure out where you're supposed to go to meet cool new people or how you're supposed to actually make them your friends. And that's why in this video I want to give you three awesome ways to meet cool people after graduating and this is gonna be really useful if you've just graduated or you may have graduated a long time ago but you're moving to a new city and you have to start over or quite frankly, anywhere in between; because these are the principles for making friends in any situation.

So first one is this — be the hub. Now, what I mean by this is if you think of a bicycle wheel, it's got a bunch of spokes coming into a central hub. And the question is — in your friend group, are you more like the hub — the person who is organizing events saying, "Let's go to my house," or "guys, do you wanted me to this restaurant at 7?" or "go to this movie on Wednesday night," — or are you the person who is the spoke? — sitting at home waiting for the text to come in which sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't.

That is the downside of being a spoke. Yes, you don't have to take charge of organizing events but you're only invited some of the time and even worse, when one of the other spokes has a party or a cool event and they can't invite everybody, who is the person that they invite? It's inevitably the person that invited them; it's that hub.

0:32 First tip on how to meet cool people after college is to be a hub
1:43 Second tip is to be the beacon
4:27 Saying yes to things that you'd never say yes to

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Today we’re going to talk about Markiplier and his storytelling.  And how you can make any story more interesting  :-) https://goo.gl/eLRiqM

If you do storytelling well, you’ll find that people love having you around.  It’s also much easier to talk about yourself in attractive or interesting ways.  It also greatly helps your persuasion and makes it easy to have a group conversation.

Why Markiplier?  We’ve already covered some aspects of storytelling in our videos on Scott Harrison and Kevin Hart, so what I wanted to show you today isn’t how to tell a good meaty story well, but instead how to get people hooked even when your story isn’t super interesting by itself.

So I picked a well known YouTuber named Markiplier because Markiplier is a great example of how to make ANYTHING more interesting. And these lessons transfer very well to storytelling.

For those of you that don’t know Markiplier he got his fame as a Let’s Play Youtuber, where he recorded himself playing videos games.  There are tens of thousands of people trying to do this, and Markilplier rose to the top because he can make any given moment seem interesting.

0:24 Quick intro to Markiplier
0:45 How Markiplier starts his storytelling specifically to get listeners eager to hear him speak
1:56 How Markiplier uses his voice to make a story sound more interesting.  Especially useful in group conversation.
4:54 Convey emotion when storytelling like Markiplier does and you'll be more captivating.  Bonus, you're also much better at persuasion.
8:46 should I do another video on Markiplier that’s about being likable / popular?

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These are the three body language tips that anyone can use to be more attractive!
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Now, here are your three body language tips, plus a bonus, to instantly be more attractive! Like it or not, people are making snap decisions about you all the time and oftentimes, they do it without even letting you speak. Quite frankly, you do the same thing to them which is why in this video, Valentine's Day is coming so, we're going to do three subtle things that you can do to be more attractive with your body language — nothing to do with what you're saying. So I'm just gonna jump right into it; the first one is something that people do wrong and that is T-Rex arms. I'm gonna illustrate this with the story because I think it's the easiest way and it was one of the most vivid ways which I learned it. I was in Las Vegas with a friend of mine. I lived there; he came in to visit and if you've ever been to a Las Vegas Club, it can be overwhelming.

So we got into this club, it was just the two of us, were not drinking, and he's not from there so, instantly, I see his body language lock down and he starts to get uncomfortable. To his credit, he starts to walk up, he sees a group of women, he walks up and says hello, and it didn't go well; his lack of confidence shines through and they disappear within pretty much 15-30 seconds. So I said, "It's alright, man. Don't sweat it. We'll have fun on the dance floor." We go to the dance floor and the same lack of confidence is shining through; he's not moving very much. He's kind of dancing in this little box like a T-Rex.

0:19 First body language that's done wrong is the T-Rex arms
2:25 Second body language that's done wrong is the seeking behavior
5:48 When groups go out
7:16 As a bonus body language tip, smiling

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These are my five morning routine habits and you'll also notice successful people doing these! I'm going to shoot this straight: I invented none of this; I stole it. This is a frankenstein from other people because I get tired of feeling groggy and wasting the first few hours of my day so I looked to the people I respected. And what I noticed was whether it was my partners in crime in equity — the ones I really liked — Tony Robbins, Tim Ferris, and the people I've learned from as I build this Charisma on Command business is — the people that are successful have a morning routine. And they have something that guarantees that they start the day feeling amazing and being productive.

Now, a good morning routine is a routine you will actually do. I've made a mistake in the past of creating hour-long routines that I thought would make me the perfect human and they're so daunting that I never did them. So this morning routine is made to wake up your body, wake up your mind, make sure you have a productive day, and make sure that you feel good but it's also specifically quick and manageable so you can actually fit it into a normal life.

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1:09 First habit of my morning routine — water and green tea
1:49 Another habit for a morning routine — make your bed
2:38 I spend four minutes waking up my body
4:26 The next habit of my morning routine is meditation!
6:13 Lastly, do something that guarantees that your day is a win

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Jordan Peterson VS Cathy Newman Debate
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How To Shut Down Conversational Bullies

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Have you seen the Jordan Peterson and Cathy Newman debate?
See for yourself how he deals with it and give us your opinion in the comments!

We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in.

So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them.

1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap
2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale"
5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique
7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though
7:47 And visual imagery can also help
8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with you

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How To Get Respect Without Being A Bully - Jordan Peterson
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Jordan Peterson recently expertly handled a debate during an interview with BBC's Channel 4 news (The video was called: Jordan Peterson debate on the gender pay gap, campus protests and postmodernism).   And JBP did it without being a bull or being aggressive.  So how do we get respect without being a bully? Well, we often think that getting respect and being aggressive go hand in hand.  Because unfortunately, it’s often the bully that gets the most respect in the schoolyard and even in the workplace. But Jordan Peterson is an exemplar of a different way to generate massive amount of respect.  So in this video we’re going to explore 3 main things he does that force people to respect you WITHOUT being a bully.

Now, we focused a lot on respect in this video but that's actually just one out of four emotions that are going to create an amazing first impression on anyone cross-culturally. Now, if you're curious with the other three emotions that you want to create in that person are to make an amazing first impression, I made a video on that that breaks down what those four emotions are so that you can start using them today to consistently make killer first impressions.

0:30 Jordan Peterson calls it "pacing your reality"
4:50 Jordan Peterson tells stories effectively
6:54 Jordan Peterson uses archetypal stories

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Gary V, Gary Vee, or Gary Vaynerchuk, as we know him, seemingly has a superpower. In addition to being a very successful investor and entrepreneur, he seems to have the ability to say almost anything he wants and have people love him for it. Gary V, Gary Vee, or Gary Vaynerchuk, as we know him, seemingly has a superpower. In addition to being a very successful investor and entrepreneur, he seems to have the ability to say almost anything he wants and have people love him for it.

He may frustrate you by interrupting you or by saying something you don't like but ultimately, people continue to love him because he's a happy, charismatic, and kind person with the intention to give a ton of value to other people. And that is a winning formula you can steal.

0:47 Gary V interrupts people
1:09 Gary Vee will say things he knows you wouldn't like
2:36 Gary Vaynerchuk compliments people
4:30 Gary V is consistently authentic

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What’s the goal of small talk? Think of small talk as a way to A.) learn about each other or learn what’s new with each other, B.) see if you connect on anything and want to form or strengthen a relationship, and C.) enjoy yourself.

This video will show you how to do that without asking a bunch of questions and making it feel like an interview, and avoid forced conversation or awkward silences.

0:56 What's the point of small talk?
1:37 How to combine a compliment & a cold read to replace a boring question with interesting, fun conversation
2:59 The kinds of questions that lead to excited conversation that flows naturally vs. the questions that lead to awkward silences
4:36 My favorite conversation game that is easy to work into conversation without it seeing weird, and makes small talk enjoyable for both people
5:44 How to guide the conversation towards things you're interested in, by eliciting their advice/opinion

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Star Wars is often referred to as a classic good vs evil story.  And it’s easy to see why when you have “bad Sith characters."

Opposing the Sith are the Jedi who seem like the obvious good guys.  But if  you dig into their belief system, there are serious problems in the mindsets they promote.   In fact, you could say that it is THEIR teachings that ultimately lead to people like Anakin Skywalker breaking and turning totally evil.

That’;s why in this video I want to break down the biggest flaw in their teachings.  Because you may have unthinkingly adopted these “good guy” teachings that can actually wind up destroying your life.

0:40 Jedi Order expects emotional neutrality from their disciples
1:31 Jedi presents negative emotions as permanent emotions
2:45 Jedi principle is to not feel

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6 Small Things That Dramatically Boost Your Charisma https://goo.gl/aKRQgB

Oftentimes the little things make the big differences and that’s true when it comes to charisma as well which is why we’re going to be covering 5 small things that dramatically boost your charisma.  These are kind of basic in some cases, but they get overlooked too often.

Thanks again to Paramount Pictures and Downsizing for sponsoring this video.  If you want to see the Downsizing movie with Matt Damon, Kriten Wiig, Cristoph Waltz, Alexander Payne and Hong Chau, click the link in the description above for tickets.

0:48 Downsize your gift
1:53 Donate the things you're not using anymore
3:07 Ask the shyest what they're excited about
4:03 Show engaged body language when talking to someone
5:41 Support other people's passion
8:07 Remember the names of the service people

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Jumanji 2 is coming out and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson is everywhere.  I’m always amazed by how charismatic he is.  Fans literally burst into tears when they see him.

I started watching videos of him and discovered something that I thought was really, really interesting.  The Rock has not always carried himself the way he does today!

In his earliest interviews, The Rock is soft spoken, a little monotone, and rarely flashes his trademark smile.  To me that makes how charismatic he is now even more amazing!

After digging into it a bit I learned that even Dwayne Johnson's first stint in the WWF was a flop.  He was promoted as a good guy that fans were supposed to get behind, but he did not make a good first impression and the crowd booed him relentlessly.

And Dwayne Johnson has said he attributes it completely to how he played the character.

This is awesome because it means that Dwayne Johnson made a conscious decision to present himself differently, and it led to him becoming insanely popular and beloved by fans.

And by looking at clips across time, we can actually break it down and see some of the secret sauce that has gone into his charisma and how to make a good first impression.

1:55 3 ways to build anticipation to captivate listeners
4:43 How to make a good first impression by answering basic questions in an interesting way (most people don't do this)
8:15 How to tell stories that impact people and have them hanging on your words
13:36 How to be a loveable leader

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In Star Wars, why do we care that Darth Vader is Luke Skywalker's father? Luke was still raised by his uncle.  He never even knew his dad.  Why does it matter that his father, a complete stranger, has a different story than he thought?

Well obviously because despite Luke’s fathers literal absence in his life, Luke always wanted to be like his father

Luke’s mentality touches on one of the most power motivators in people’s lives and also one of the most misunderstood.  And that’s why In this video I want to dive into how Luke was destined to become Vader, how Kylo Ren is destined to become more like Han Solo and how your relationship with your father shapes your destiny, not just in the Star Wars universe, but in life.  Because it affects you more than you probably realize,  And it doesn’t matter whether you think  your dad was a good guy OR a bad one.

Also, spoilers through Star Wars Episode 7: The Force Awakens coming - some speculation into episode 8: The Last Jedi though I don’t have any advanced knowledge

1:08 Every son idolizes his dad and feels a desire to be like him
4:18 The subconscious will play a part
7:46 Tips to deal with some negative connection between son and father

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Today’s video is going to be a little bit different then what we normally do, but at the end of the day Charisma On Command is here to make your life better, and that can mean happier, more successful, or better at creating and maintaining different types of relationships.

For me, one of the best things I ever did was start an online business.   It has been super fulfilling and has made me really happy.  THAT is what I want to do for you as well.

So whether you work at a job you don’t like, or have always wanted to start your own thing, or just want to make extra money on the side, this video is going to help you to do that.  We'll show you how to come up with a great business idea, how to test your business idea so that you know it will make money, and how to grow your online business once it's up and running :-)

1:26  How To Come Up With A Great Business Idea
3:48  How To Validate Your Business Idea So That You KNOW It Is Going To Work (Before You Invest A Lot Of Time And Money Into The Business)
5:55  How To Scale Your Business By Going To Where People Already Are

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How To Make Yourself Immune To Social Pressure
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We have another video up that touches on how to deal with social pressure and will help with the improvement of your social skills. One of the unfortunate things about living in the world is that when you have goals, there will be obstacles and those obstacles can often come in the form of other human beings — the doubters, the haters, and sometimes the friends and the family that just don't want you to get hurt or don't want you to change which is why in this video, I want to help immunize you against that peer and social pressure.

The holidays are coming up so you’re going to get a healthy dose of social pressure when you go home (about your job, your dating status, whatever), so I want to help you to handle it, especially when that social pressure and doubt is coming from people you love.

0:55 Write down your values
2:30 Build a core group of positive influences
4:56 Find a way to build conviction in yourself

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5 Common Phrases That Kill Your Charisma

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Welcome to another Charisma on Command video where we talk about phrases that kill your charisma. In the past, I've spoken a lot about phrases that you're gonna want to add to your vocabulary in order to become more charismatic and persuasive. But the truth is far more common are phrases that you currently have in your vocabulary that are killing your charisma, that are making you far less persuasive, and that are getting people to fight with you.

So in last video, I discussed some of the things you definitely want to say in order to persuade people, but far more common are the things you definitely DON’T want to say.  So in this video I want to share 5 things I hear all the time that make people much less likable and less likely to be able to persuade anyone.

0:25 Charisma tip one is to tweak, "No problem"
1:33 Charisma tip number two is to not say, "You messed up"
3:19 Charisma tip three is the Preemptive disqualification
4:36 Don't say, "You always/never" followed with a negative comment
6:15 Being specific can also help with charisma and show confidence

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      <description><![CDATA[Stephen Colbert: How To Be Funny

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Here are 3 jokes that are guaranteed to make people laugh. Stephen Colbert is one of the most popular comedians on television today and it is largely due to his ability to think on his feet and make people laugh.  He is a fantastic person to model if you want to know how to be funny.

Today we’re going to talk about three go-to jokes that form the foundation of Colbert’s humor.  Once you learn these, it will be easy to be funny.  Jokes will start to come to you on the fly and you’ll have people laughing without even trying.

0:38 The first joke Stephen Colbert learned from his time in improv is The Fake Out
1:38 a literal formula you can steal from Stephen Colbert for how to be funny
2:11 how to be good at improv comedy
2:35 Stephen Colbert's favorite joke on The Colbert Report was The Caricature, a great technique for how to be funny
5:14 The best of Stephen Colbert's improv background shows every time he uses "yes and".  This is my favorite technique for how to be funny, because it creates a great team dynamic and make everyone around you laugh
7:35 How to make this a habit so that it's easy to come up with something funny on the spot

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Persuasion. When someone is persuaded, it's amazing how positive things turn out. Some psychology on how to persuade someone, empathy, and your personal development off of it will be talked about.

You probably like to think of yourself as a rational human being like when you have a decision to make, you take all the information you make a pros and cons list and you add that up to make the best decision possible. But you're a human being and the truth of human beings is we are far more irrational than we'd like to admit. Oftentimes, our decisions come down to the smallest irrational things and oftentimes, that can be just a few words which is why in this video,

I want to give you 6 phrases that you can use to turn the tide in your favor when you're trying to persuade someone to do something that you might like. Now, this is not going to be a substitute for really developing a true persuasive strategy, it's not a substitute for empathy but start adding these phrases into your vocabulary and I think you will be shocked with how quickly and how effective they are. So, the first one is when you're coming up against a gatekeeper and the phrase is simply going to be — "Have you ever made an exception?" Now, I used to use this all the time when I would try to get into bars and clubs after it was technically at capacity and it worked pretty well.

0:44 First persuasion phrase is to let them think it won't be a big deal
1:38 A person will more likely be persuaded if you bring empathy to the table
2:58 Make them see you in a positive light and work on your psychology prowess
4:19 Call them by their name
5:14 Another persuasion tactic is the use of the Yes Ladder
6:45 Use the power of "because"

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Intermittent Fasting 101: Intro to IF for Fat Loss - John Romaniello

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The Best Reps, Sets And Rest When Training?

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Here are five ways to increase confidence, testosterone, and energy. Whenever people talk about confidence, they talk about the same stuff: pushing your comfort zone to get comfortable being uncomfortable and repeatedly exposing yourself to what makes you nervous until it’s no big deal.

And that’s all true and awesome.

But I want to approach it from a different angle today, because there’s also a hormone in your brain that will increase your decisiveness, assertiveness, and energy levels, and as a bonus, it makes it easier to gain muscle, easier to lose fat, and gives you a higher sex drive.

And it’s been shown to heavily correlate with confidence.  The only thing that’s unclear is if it’s a first order cause of higher confidence, or if the increased decisiveness, energy, assertiveness, muscle, etc. is what leads to confidence.

Either way it seems like it’s a hormone worth optimizing!

2:28 Why when you eat impacts energy levels and your hormones
4:14 Lift weights the right way to increase testosterone and confidence
5:12 Your diet can improve confidence  and testosterone and thus, your charisma
7:54 The importance of sleep
9:13  4 common things that destroy your energy and your testosterone

Also I say this in the video but just as a reminder: I’m not a nutritionist or a doctor.  Please pay careful attention to serving sizes.  There IS too much of a good thing.

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The Most Powerful Psychological Force In Game Of Thrones

What would be the most powerful psychological force in Game of Thrones? In this video I want to talk about why his identity as Stark or Greyjoy is so psychologically important for Theon.  We’ll discuss how a sense of identity helps Theon recover from his devastation at the hands of Ramsay after he becomes Reek and how we can all think about our own identities so that they serve us in the best and worst times in our lives.

First off, in the context of Game of Thrones being a Stark and being a Greyjoy mean two very different things.  Starks are honor bound to a fault, morose, and completely without guile.  Greyjoys are pillagers who take advantage of the weak, enjoy the hedonistic pleasures in life, and are constantly looking to improve their position.  Theons choice to identify as a Greyjoy over a stark changes the entire course of the story.

6:43 Names matter as shown before Game of Thrones season 8
8:32 Environment and peers affect Theon in HBO Game of Thrones
9:36 Habitual environment trumps labels like with Reek

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The Marvel Cinematic Universe is pretty much the only thing guaranteed to get me to the movie theater on opening night.  I am literally counting down to Thor: Ragnarok!  But even though the Marvel movies are amazing, there is popular criticism that their villains are kind of weak.

And yet, from Thor to Avengers to Thor The Dark World, Loki is the one villain that everybody seems to adore and root for.

While most Marvel villains get killed off or captured after just one film, Loki has now played a major role in 4 films.  Loki won MTV's sexiest Avenger.  There’s even been petitions for Tom Hiddleston to star in a Loki standalone movie.

I believe there are four major reasons why Loki has literally gotten away with murder and become one of the biggest fan favorites in the Marvel universe.

And understanding these four things will help so you too can get away with making mistakes or screwing up, without it being something people hold against you.

0:55 Loki is the best villain as he is charming
3:38 We understand and relate to Loki
7:32 He is a tortured soul  as shown in these Loki best scenes
9:50 You can't keep Loki down being the brother of Thor

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It’s obvious that confidence and self-esteem are the defining traits of happiness and success.  And for a long time I thought that high self esteem was the end all be all.  If you had that - you were set, but I actually think there is another internal mindset that’s even more important.  That concept is self love - unconditional self love - and that's what I want to share in this video.

0:00 Self Esteem and self love and self improvement and personal development and more!

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And here is our recent video “How To Create An Attractive Voice”:
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If you’ve ever wanted to know what personality type leads to being beloved by men and women alike, you’re going to like this video about Chris Hemsworth and Thor: Ragnarok.

I started researching for this video intending to make something around “Thor: Ragnarok”.  But I very quickly realized that the real person worth studying is Chris Hemsworth.  A single Chris Hemsworth interview can make you laugh, smile, and say "aw".  It's really hard not to like him!

There are four things about Chris Hemsworth that seem to truly make people love being around him.

Even castmates that started out wanting NOT to like Chris Hemsworth end up raving about him and saying how funny he is or how sweet he is.

And the hype for his latest movie Thor: Ragnaraok is off the charts!  The Thor Ragnarok trailer looks amazing and it's because we finally found a director that’s willing to let Chris Hemsworth and Thor bleed their personalities together just like Robert Downey Jr. and Iron Man.

And as you see in the video it literally transformed Thor from the worst ranked Marvel film on Rotten Tomatoes (Thor: The Dark World) to the highest (Thor: Ragnarok).

Which reflects even more impressively on how funny Chris Hemsworth is when you consider that director Taika Waititi claims Thor: Ragnarok is ~80% improvised.

So let’s take a look at Chris Hemsworth’s personality and what makes him so special.

2:33  How To Make Jokes That Elevate The People Around You (and make them love you for it)
4:16  How To Be Funny By Teasing And How To Be Genuine
5:30  How To Touch In A Way People Like And How To Touch Without Being Creepy
10:11 How To Share Embarrassing Stories In A Way That Conveys Confidence And Makes People Respect You
11:41  Sharing Praise And Being Everyone’s Favorite Team Member
13:25  How To Make A Compliment Feel Genuine And Not Fake (i.e., How To Compliment Without Being A Suckup)

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      <description><![CDATA[The Nice Guy Paradox: How Being A "Nice Guy" Is Sabotaging Your Relationships And How To Get More Of What You Want In Life.

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The "Nice Guy" gets harpooned in today's society.  We're told that nice guys finish last, that nice guys can't get the girl.  And this is true of nice women as well.

I completely disagree.  I think that might be true of a weak person, an indecisive person, someone who lacks confidence or people skills.

A "nice guy" can be an incredibly charismatic, strong leading, attractive person.

Now that being said, there IS a habit that I see from "nice" people that is sabotaging your relationships.

And there's a better way of doing things that can help you get more of what you want while conveying extreme levels of confidence and will make people respect you more.

* I'm appreciative to the book No More Mr. Nice Guy and to Landmark Forum.  Both contributed to my learning this about myself and starting to observe it in others *

1:12 Build confidence and stop scorekeeping as Dr. Robert Glover say
2:08 As Dr. Robert Glover said about the nice guy syndrome where guilt is instilled
3:58 Nice guys finish last because of the reply no and present being a nice guy
4:42 Not necessarily how to stop being nice or how to ask for love but a tip for common case

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The dreaded friend zone.  Like it or not, it's a common experience amongst many people and escaping the friend zone can be a confusing prospect.  That's why in this video I want to show you 4 steps to get out of the friend zone and maybe wind up with a boyfriend or a girlfriend

1:11 Take responsibility so as not to be in the friend zone
2:00 Focus on bettering yourself
3:23 Steady your nerves and work on that charisma
8:00 Reveal your feelings and see how to escape the friend zone

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Posture is probably the easiest and healthiest way to improve your appearance.

Your posture impacts your thin slice, determining how attractive you appear and how confident you appear.

Posture also has a major impact on airflow and blood flow, meaning it has a MAJOR impact on performance.  Posture impacts how well you speak, how athletic you can be, even bedroom performance.

And lastly, posture has a fairly meaningful impact on your health, ESPECIALLY as you get older.  Your posture today is dramatically going to impact if you’re the kind of person that’s living a full life when you’re older.  If you don’t fix the minor issues you have today, they will compound over time.

I’m going to go piece by piece through the most common postural issues, the common causes and how to minimize that negative impact, and then how to proactively fix your posture so it’s perfect.

0:50 Fix posture for the forward head and present a better posture and avoid neck pain
2:48 You won't show a more confident body language with this so do improve posture
6:17 How to have a better posture if not a perfect posture is to do these posture exercises

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Nobody wants to be boring.  But unfortunately no one teaches us how not to.  Which is why in this video we are going to cover 5 things that you can do to avoid boring everyone around you and instead attract people to you you like a magnet while enjoying your life much more.

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0:14 Improve your energy which will always help personal development and relationships
0:59 Make backup list of topics as second tip on how to never be boring
1:57 Learning to tell a good story as a self help in social will aid in self improvement too
3:35 Spend part of your every day pursuing a dream on the philosophy side

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An attractive, confident voice can totally change your life, making you more appealing to whoever you're dating, impacting how much people respect your ideas and follow your leadership, even determining how funny people think you are.  It completely shapes how people respond to you.

And there are a LOT of ways to do it wrong.

I absolutely trashed my vocal chords by following some bad advice, which I’ll touch on during this video.  It actually got so bad that I needed surgery. I was completely mute for a month recovering, it was a bad time.

For the last 8 months I’ve spent many many hours and thousands of dollars working with multiple speech therapists, singing coaches, and Alexander Technique trainers.  And I want to share some of the biggest takeaways that can help you have an attractive, confident, healthy voice.

1:01 How to have an attractive voice pitch and timbre and the wrong way of doing it
1:49 How to have a deeper voice and how to get a deeper voice
2:45 How to have a strong, resonant voice that projects and carries
3:25 A common misconception about how to breath into your diaphragm
3:57 Tips to have confidence for public speaking and be more attractive
6:00 Some exercises in how to sound confident and how to speak confidently
7:36 How to have a better voice and how to have a confident voice that's more expressive
8:55 A special announcement for Charlie's birthday.  Happy 30th big guy!

And here's the Elliot Hulse video How To Create A DEEPER Voice that I referenced!
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The ability to tell a story can literally transform your life.  It can land you a job in a crowded applicant pool, make you stand out on a first date, or be the difference between your business succeeding or failing.

Today I have a very special breakdown on storytelling.  Not just because storytelling is so important to charisma and life, but because I am actually in this breakdown as the interviewer.

And the person I’m interviewing is without exaggeration one of the people I most admire on the planet.  His name is Scott Harrison and as the founder of charity:water he has helped raise over 100 million dollars by telling stories for a good cause.

So in this video you’re going to learn the 3 high level principles that will help you to tell more engaging stories in any environment.  And I should warn you, these stories are heavy and contain really sad, but important messages, which is necessary when you’re talking about the truth of why charity water exists.  I’m also going to let the clips run longer so you can hear a bigger part of the story uninterrupted and comment later.

2:30 Take the listener to the same emotional journey you had when storytelling
4:18 Have a mystery to keep listener engaged like Charity Water story
5:47 Have a lesson at the end for personal development as the Scott Harrison interview

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Liza Koshy has quickly become one of YouTube’s fastest growing stars, hitting 10 million subscribers within two years of starting!

Liza Koshy started on Vine as Lizzza, where she cut her teeth making videos that had to be 6 seconds or less.  Because of this, Liza Koshy is very very good at quickly getting people to like her, relate to her, and laugh with her.

So today we’re going to talk about 3 things that Liza Koshy does consistently that make people love her and how you can incorporate them into your own life.  I picked these three things specifically because they are easy to do, they get great reactions quickly, and if you use all three you will be the type of person that people gravitate towards and want to be around.

1:17 Lizza Koshy purposely misinterprets things to create humor
3:20 How to use comedy to cheer up your friends and avoid social anxiety
3:53 Liza Koshy jokes with confidence like with Liza David cute moments
5:34 Lizzza does honest comedy so see how to be funnier with her sketch
7:08 David Dobrik and Lizakoshy can also show how to make friends

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      <description><![CDATA[Why Wonder Woman Is So Insanely Inspiring

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I felt like Wonder Woman was the first female character in a long time who would say something like this.

Now I am not saying that there are no admirable women in cinema.  There definitely are (Mulan)

I’m saying that when it comes to recent blockbusters (Fifty Shades, Twilight) and superhero movies, women are usually either supporting cast (Black widow) or not exactly role models.  Wonder Woman isn’t perfect, but she gets a lot right which is why I want to talk about what her character does differently from the common female tropes that men and women alike can learn from.

0:39 Wonder Woman played by Gal Gadot is enthusiastic like with Chris Pine
2:24 2017 movie Wonder Woman directed by Patty Jenkins shows idealism
5:24 DC comics character Wonder Woman questions the rules
6:33 With a movieclip of No Man's Land scene Wonder Woman VS Ares

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Today let’s talk about Rick & Morty!

Rick and Morty is one of the smartest, funniest, most entertaining shows in recent memory.  One super interesting aspect of Rick and Morty is that its title character, Rick Sanchez, is beloved by fans despite being an apathetic horribly flawed criminal.

In fact, the majority of Rick and Morty viewers root for Rick more than any other character.

Today we’re going to go over why exactly that is, using some of my favorite Rick and Morty clips, and also a few things you can apply to your own life to be as magnetic and well respected as Rick, without all the terrible traits mixed in :-)

0:58 A quick rundown of flaws of Rick Sanchez of Rick and Morty
1:50 People admire excellence as also mentioned on Emergency Awesome
2:20 Humor affects the impact of what is said on Rick and Morty Adult Swim
3:00 The power of speaking unpopular opinions out loud
4:30 The dark side of human emotion which is also shown on Rick and Morty season 3
6:13 The film theorists even agrees wisecrack Rick taking risks to protect

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      <description><![CDATA[James Bond: 5 Charisma Tips From The “Perfect Man"

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I was rematching James Bond: Casino Royale and this scene really struck me....

I realized that in many ways Vesper is speaking for the audience because James Bond represents our cultures masculine ideal.  Whatever he is, is what so many young men are kinda wishing they could become.  So in this video I want to investigate who exactly that aspirational man is.  Because there is definitely something to be learned, some positive traits we can add to our lives.   But there’s also some ideas of “masculinity” that we’d probably be better off discarding.  So let's break down Bond in Casino Royale.

0:41 Eva Green as Vesper loves Bond as he is insanely capable
2:43 James Bond or 007 is mostly unreactive and emits confidence
4:40 Daniel Craig as James Bond is loved by women and flirting
6:56 He's willing to die for his ideals as in Casino Royale or in Skyfall

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Everyone in the world is given the same amount of time.  Yet some people are able to run multiple startups simultaneously, some people are able to learn amazing skills, and some people don’t seem to be doing much besides treading water.  What's the difference between these people?

PRODUCTIVITY.

So in this video, Ben goes through 6 ways to massively increase your productivity so that you can get twice as much done every day.  Or get the same stuff done in half the time, so that you have more time to do what you love doing  :-)

The goal of productivity is not to get as much random stuff done as possible.  These productivity tips are geared towards completing your highest leverage, highest impact tasks.

0:54 Killing Bob and getting things done to avoid procrastination
2:11 Make work an escape room and improve productivity
3:17 Say no to time vampires as one of productivity hacks
5:25 Avoid brain-draining activities to help with productivity
6:06 Wake up your body to wake up your mind
6:50 Time arbitrage is another of many productivity hacks

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In this video I’m going to tell you how to win any argument.  And I have years of training as a logician as a philosopher here, I can mangle people in debates and we are not going to use ANY of that here.  I wasted so much time and damaged relationships with the "right” logical correct argument that SHOULD win.  And I can make a video on that if you want, but the truth it would be next to useless when it comes to getting what you truly want.

Because we are dealing with people.  And throwing the right facts at people without catering to the psychology required to open them up, is destructive to your relationship and to getting what you want.  Plus it destroys your ability to be compassionate and truly see things from someone else’s point of view.

0:54 How to win any argument is to edefine what winning means
1:54 How to win any argument is to know what they want
2:47 Empathizing via statements can help build social skills and mindsets
4:01 Aim for self improvement and recognize their positive intent
5:21 Build your confidence and make your case

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Graham Norton has what many people would consider their ideal charisma - for two reasons.

One, Graham Norton doesn’t need to hog the spotlight in order to shine.  And two, Graham Norton seems to have the ability to make ANYONE like him.  From rockstars to movie stars to professional athletes, people from all walks of life seem to love being around him.

So today we’re going to talk about a 4 step formula that Graham Norton uses to make people love him even while he teases them, and how you can use it to make yourself both funnier and more well liked.

0:34  Graham Norton creates a warm and positive connection
1:26  Graham Norton compliments especially on Graham Norton Show
2:55  How to be funnier and how to make people like you
5:33  How to use banter and teasing to get everyone on the same level
9:00  Graham Norton does the art of self deprecation

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      <description><![CDATA[3 Easy Ways to Start A Conversation With Anyone

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One of the most common questions I get is how do I start a conversation in this situation or that situation. And so what I thought would be helpful is to give you 3 simple ways to start a conversation (aka conversation starters) that you can use anywhere.  You don't need to be a genius, they’re super versatile and I use them pretty much every day.




0:44 Being a human Google is one of the conversation starters and openers
3:27 Being a human Twitter to develop how to start a conversation

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**Hello!  Adding this in because some people missed the video on How To Stop People From Talking Over You.  This is Ben!  I'm the guy in this video.  I founded Charisma On Command with Charlie four years ago.  You can catch a bit of my story towards the end of this video when I introduce myself.  Charlie is still creating videos!  He's going to release his next one on Monday.  Hope that clears things up a bit :-)
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Have you ever had a tough conversation in front of you and not known exactly how to handle it?

Maybe it was with your boyfriend or girlfriend, amongst friends or roommates, with your family, or at work.

Difficult conversations are stressful because if you handle them poorly, it can do irreparable damage to your relationship or your career.  And we never get taught how to do it correctly!

So in this video I go over the principles you can apply to make almost any difficult conversation go well for you.  You don’t need to use all of these in all situations.  What I want to do is arm you with options so you can choose the right tool for whatever situation you're in.

00:36 3 things to consider BEFORE tough conversations and difficult conversations
00:42 Draw your line.  Define what's acceptable and what's unacceptable.
02:20 Thinking things through as if you're the other person
03:38 Set the tone that YOU want the conversation to have
04:10 Things to consider DURING a tough conversation
04:30 State facts and feelings to prevent someone from being defensive
05:30 What to do when someone is making jokes at your expense that you don't like
06:48 Go on the record early so that a tough conversation isn't a surprise
08:11 Have mutual understanding and don't assume about what the other person is thinking
08:50 What to do when you're the one who made a mistake or how to receive feedback
12:05 How to handle emotionally charged conversations and have confidence
13:50 How to calm down a tough conversation that is getting heated
15:40 A more formal introduction!

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Why Daenerys Loves Jon Snow

Why does Daenerys Targaryen fall for Jon Snow?  I mean he’s a powerful handsome guy, but Daenerys has had plenty of offers from powerful handsome men, like Jorah and Daario, and none truly interested her.  Something is different about Jon Snow though.  The show gives us some clues that actually can teach you a lot about attraction and love in the real world, which is why I wanted to explore exactly what it was that created that spark of love - because you also you might learn something for your own life.

3:00 Jon Snow by Kit Harrington showed confidence to Khaleesi by Emilia Clarke
6:30 Jon Snow of House Stark can be honest to Daenerys Targaryen
9:30 Winter is here and in Game of Thrones GOT everyone can count on Jon Snow

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      <description><![CDATA[How Conor McGregor Can KO Floyd Mayweather

Conor McGregor's unshakeable confidence and extremely powerful visualization rituals make him almost unstoppable.

Every boxing analyst is saying Conor McGregor doesn’t stand a chance against Floyd Mayweather.  And maybe they’re right - but I have a different perspective because while I don’t know much about boxing, I AM a student of human psychology.

And I’ve never seen anyone with a better mental game than Conor McGregor.  He is insanely confident, which creates the optimal emotional state for dominating a fight.

And a big part of that confidence is how Conor uses visualization to see his victories before they happen.

00:30  Three Conor McGregor predictions tmt
01:11  Visualize the pregame like in the coming Floyd Mayweather fight
03:07  The details: what Conor chooses to visualize
04:21  Creating physical manifestations of your vision in the world
06:52  Grounding what you visualize into reality which is pop in Vegas and sports
09:10  Time of Visualization like back in UFC as in boxing on Showtime
12:00 One also needs to speak as shown in this McGregor VS Mayweather fight

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It can sap your confidence and leave you in your own head unsure how to get back into the conversation...

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With 6 strategies you can use to engage a group of people so that instead of cutting you off, they're hanging on what you have to say.

These strategies touch on both WHAT you say and HOW you say it.

0:45 Put pregnant pauses mid-sentence NOT at the end
1:17 Express excitement with your voice to activate listener mirror neurons
1:48 Be loud enough with your voice and your body so as not to get interrupted
2:13 Speak like you deserve to be heard which is also good in group dynamics
3:06 Tell tight stories to captivate and develop those social skills
3:47 Make yourself enjoyable to listen to
4:28 Wrap complaints in story arcs
4:50 Relate back to the listener

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We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head.  At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to.

That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation

0:20 Play Reminds Me of
0:54 Ask open-ended questions
1:40 Use revival questions
2:37 Make a complimentary cold read
3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk

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Margaery Tyrell might be the most underrated player in Game of Thrones.  And it’s a shame that she meets her end so early, at least in the show, because more than any other character I’ve covered, she has the most to teach you about how to behave in the real world.

Which is cool, because unlike Littlefinger and Tywin Lannister, I don’t have to tell you NOT to do these things.  We’re talking about good stuff here, so you’ll want to apply a lot of this even if you don't live in the Game of Thrones, beginning with Margaery’s first incredible talent: her ability to build rapport with anyone.  She has a number of incredibly effective strategies.

00:16 Build rapport as the HBO show Game of Thrones here shows
06:33 Learn as much as you can about the person to truly empathize
07:39 Lead them as shown as examples here from Game of Thrones

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How Tywin Lannister Commands Respect in Game of Thrones

Tywin Lannister is a beast.  He effectively served as king for many years under Aerys and wielded massive influence over Robert and Joffrey.  He would have continued to be the power behind the thrones had he not been so horrible to Tyrion - more on that later - but that’s not the point.

In this video I want to explore why Tywin was able to command so much respect, breaking down everything from his body language to his strategy.

00:28 Game of Thrones of HBO shows this Tywin Lannister epic king outlook
04:40 One of the analyses of GOT Tywin Lannister dominance
10:20 Towering Tywin Lannister over Cersei and Tyrion Lannister

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Littlefinger Is probably the single best player in the Game of Thrones.  He’s indirectly led to the downfall of at least 3 major houses and has advanced his station at every opportunity.  In this video we’re going to do an analysis on what it is that he does that makes him win and how deviating from his strategy may lead him to the end of his winning streak.

2 caveats.  First spoilers through season 6 and some speculation into season 7.  And two, don’t do the things little finger does.  It’s fun to analyze Littlefinger manipulations and learn how you can avoid them in your own life - Sansa Stark would benefit for certain - just don’t be a liar and backstabber.  It’s not cool.

Let’s begin - Game of Thrones is all about power.  Some people, like Cersei, use their position to command others.   Or people like the Mountain who literally just dominate through brute force.

But in the long run, it’s those who wield power more subtly who excel at the game.  And perhaps no one is more subtle the Petyr Baelish.  He is the ultimate power player in the game because he gets other people to do what he wants, without them even knowing he’s influenced them

01:10 Littlefinger got the power subtly and not by force in Game of Thrones
07:53 Cersei Lannister is opposite of Petyr Baelish in terms of subtlety
08:14 Petyr Baelish in HBO Game of Thrones lets other think they control him
09:46 Marriage scene with Peter Dinklage as Tyrion Lannister
13:15 Littlefinger talks to Sophie Turner as Sansa Stark

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Logan Paul has the fastest growing channel on YouTube and he’s unlikely to slow down.  I originally wanted to cover him for this reason alone - after all you have to do something right to accrue millions of new fans a month.  But after digging in, I found out that he is doing something special on the business business - so this is as much a charisma breakdown as it is a business and sales breakdown.

I spoke about this at length in the Pewdiepie video, but the jump cuts and intense emotion keep the video incredibly engaging since the human brain is trained to pay attention to people showing strong emotion as well as anything that changes rapidly.  Logan Paul is a natural performer and comedian who is willing to be goofy in public.

Together with his brother Jake Paul, the two are poised to move from Vine and conquer YouTube.

1:40 Chloe Bennet comments but Logan knows what has to be done
2:52 Logan Paul loves what he does as shown when he does his vlog
8:51 Paul shows the merch and Maverick clothes plus the hollywood hero trophy

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Here, we try to look into the dangerous side of Tom Cruise's charisma. Tom Cruise is known as one of the most charismatic celebrities in Hollywood.  When Rolling Stone writer and author Neil Strauss met him, he described him as “the perfect specimen” who has “a natural ability to remain dominant in any social situation without seeming to exert any effort.”

As amazing as that sounds, that kind of superhuman charisma does have a dangerous downside.  And it’s both of those things that we’re going to explore in this video: the specific behaviors that make Tom Cruise such a dominant social force.  And the potential cost of being so charismatic. Below are the ones that make him so charismatic.

0:36 Tom Cruise commands his physical space as in The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon
2:20 He genuinely smiles all the time and with other celebrities
2:53 He mentions the name of the person he's talking to as in this NBC interview
3:37 Tom Cruise keeps eye contact and in Oprah as well
4:28 His talent in conversation also shows when he leans in when talking

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You may be doing some pretty little things that can have a big negative effect on what people think about you so in this video, we're going to cover nine of the most common mistakes you may be making that can kill your charisma and some quick fixes. Here we go.

First — not proactively introducing yourself. Many people feel uncomfortable when they enter into a new group so in order to keep a low profile, they often offer a small hand wave or just stand there quietly — this is uncomfortable for everyone involved. So the next time that you find yourself entering or being pulled into a small group, make sure to make eye contact and introduce yourself to everyone there with the handshake.

0:14 Not proactively introducing yourself
0:46 Not introducing your friends when you're in a new group
0:55 Talking about things no one cares about
1:16 Not soliciting feedback will not help self improvement
1:41 Trailing off or mumbling may not show self confidence
2:03 Answering questions with single words
2:31 Whining will not help with personal development
2:42 Not remembering names won't help with your social skills
3:08 Lack of principles won't help with your charisma

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Tony Robbins is probably the most gifted communicator I have ever seen.  One of his most amazing feats is that in his live seminars, he is able to take people from feeling depressed to empowered in just one conversation.

So in this video, we’re going to talk about just one of the techniques that Tony Robbins uses to accomplish this.  It’s called a state break and that is anything that you do to shift someone from one emotion to another.  It sounds simple, but if you can master this skill, your ability to help other people, to persuade, and to live a more fulfilled life goes through the roof.

0:50 Anthony Robbins gives the opposite of what they expect
3:20 Tony Robbins resorts to humor like in I Am Not Your Guru
7:35 Calls for body motion for self help and personal development

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02:23 How do I meet you?
02:56 How do you deal with extreme nervousness especially in competition?
04:44 How do you improve your self-esteem and make people respect you?
07:30 How tall are you?
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11:50 How is charisma different for men and women?
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15:08 What should I plan to do in life when I'm in college?
18:30 Who is your favorite philosopher?
20:15 What do you think about the personality test, MBTI?
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36:29 How do you make friends?
39:48 How do you keep disciplined in your diet?
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3:51 Can you give me advice on my first date?
5:57 How do you deal with unmotivated people in a team?

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      <description><![CDATA[Philip DeFranco: How To Make People Trust You

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Philip DeFranco is probably the most trusted newsperson on YouTube.  And in an era where mainstream news is suspect and allegations of fake news fly even from the President’s mouth, that might make Philip DeFranco the most trust newsperson in America.

In this video I want to talk about what you can learn from Philly D in terms of generating that kind of trust and respect, even when you’re talking about really controversial topics.  And let me warn you, this isn’t always going to be easy

As Phil says, let’s just jump into it.

0:31 Philip DeFranco delineates between facts and his opinions
1:25 No hiding of biased opinions in Philip DeFranco Show
4:52 Philly D knows his principles and in DeFranco Elite

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      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbbjyWE0bTk</link>
      <description><![CDATA[First ever live stream!

Questions asked:
0:02:34 How do you accept a compliment?
0:03:40 What's your background story?
0:08:05 How do you deal with social anxiety?
0:10:38 How does money affect social interactions in various cultures?
0:11:44 How do you have friends if you're introverted and don't enjoy going out?
0:12:40 What's the best way to stop thinking about your ex-girlfriend?
0:14:50 How do you make conversations not awkward with new people?
0:16:37 How do you deal with language barrier when meeting new people?
0:18:06 How can you make yourself interesting?
0:19:32 What do you do when people don't agree with you?
0:20:35 How do you deal with sarcastic or verbal attack?
0:22:25 How do you deal with nervousness?
0:24:25 How do you ignore the little things that don't matter when you do?
0:25:59 How do you make negative people positive?
0:29:00 How do you never run out of things to say?
0:31:08 What are your top three books?
0:32:00 How did you make Charisma on Command grow?
0:33:12 How did you find the motivation to start Charisma on Command?
0:36:30 What do you think of Simon Sinek's Start With Why?
0:37:49 What do you think of Mark Manson?
0:38:29 Have you seen any work of Jordan Peterson?
0:39:58 How do you get over not adequately standing up for yourself during a sibling conflict?
0:41:51 Can you give body language tips on doing a presentation for short people?
0:43:39 How do you speak through a smile without looking creepy?
0:44:53 How do you stop rambling when you're nervous?
0:46:59 I go to school and my life feels meaningless.. Can you give me some advice?
0:47:58 How do you deal with fear of success in relationships?
0:49:10 My ex wants to talk but I don't know if she wants to use me or get to another guy.
0:49:36 How do you grow your YouTube channel?
0:51:50 I want to ask a girl out who I only saw in the hall for a short time.
0:53:26 How do I find mentors and people I can look up to?
0:54:28 How do you reverse comparing yourself to others?
0:56:33 Who are the people that touched your life in terms of public speaking?
0:57:55 Can you suggest a book about confidence?
0:58:54 How do you have fun without drinking?
1:00:06 How can you be charismatic when managing people at work?

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      <title>How To Master Your Mind</title>
      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBIao6nI58o</link>
      <description><![CDATA[How To Master Your Mind

If you want updates on the Belief System course I mention, leave your email here (didn't have time to make a separate sign up page, but I'll make sure you get the survey!): https://goo.gl/AiIEjJ

If you’re like me, your mind has sabotaged you in the past.

You want to feel confident, but it makes you shake
You want to eat healthy, but junk food wins

Today I’m going to give you some high level strategy for dealing with all those things and more.

Let’s start with the operating principles

What makes one person walk into a room confident, head held high excited to meet people on the top of their game and another slink in?  What makes one person work on their business like crazy

When you think about what people are willing to do for religion, give their lives, hurt other people, help other people, it should become clear that your beliefs drive action.

The problem is most of us do not know how to choose what we believe.  It might sound crazy, but imagine if you could simply choose to believe that everyone was excited to talk to you.  Or you could choose to believe that putting long hours into building a business was fun.  Or that eating junk food was worse than being hungry.  Imagine how easy it’d be to achieve your goals if you could just pick the beliefs that supported them.

Well, that’s where I’m going, so I want to introduce you to the principle that drives what we believe.

3:58 Recognizing the positive intent for the self confidence
5:00 Associate a painful consequence if you do not change
7:59 Determine the pleasure you get when you change

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      <title>The Introvert's Guide To Networking</title>
      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FAPySGLL3gg</link>
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Last week I went to a conference called ClamourCon I saw something that really surprised me.  In fact it wasn’t a something, but a someone.  This person, a self professed introvert, was one of the best networked people I know, with connections from Holly wood to the venture capital world, to personal development world.  Once I found this out about him, I began to ask him how that all came about and that’s what I want to share with you today.

His name by the way is Evan Carmichael, he’s a YouTuber who makes inspiring content for entrepreneurs.  I’ll put a link to his channel in the description.  So here’s what I saw from him.

First off, redefine what constitutes a networking event.  Most things with “networking” in the title are a complete waste of time.  It attracts people who are looking to develop a network instead of a relationship.  And it’s especially bad if you’re an introvert, since you’ll be competing with a bunch of other people hungry to share their story and what they are working on.

Evan's Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/ModelingTheMasters

0:50 Redefine your networking philosophy as per Evan Carmichael
2:15 Be open to people and have confidence and believe in yourself
3:28 Know what people want which is easier for an introvert
5.07 Play matchmaker and help others in their self improvement

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      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_SmshF2ynw</link>
      <description><![CDATA[3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF

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Chris Pratt is one of the most charming and funny people I’ve ever seen and that’s after over 100 Charisma on Command videos.  So In honor of Guardians of The Galaxy 2 I wanted to do a breakdown of what it is that makes him so engaging and likable.  In his case, there is a powerful aura of positivity.  Nearly everything he says and does is so upbeat and the effect is contagious

Now, It’s far easier to say be positive, than to actually put it into practice.  That’s why we are going to look at some of the foundations of Chris Pratt’s positivity.  Because when you can bring that into your own life, being confident and charismatic comes so much more easily

0:47 Self amuse as in Jurassic World - Guardians of the Galaxy diet
4:53 Chris Pratt positivity as in this funny clip with Stephen Colbert
6:58 Chris Pratt sticks to the complementary humor and comedy

Everything is awesome (The LEGO Movie): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StTqXEQ2l-Y

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      <description><![CDATA[How To Text A Girl

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Have you ever met a girl, hit it off, exchanged numbers, texted her to set up plans and then NEVER seen her again.  Yeah, probably more than once.  And that’s because there are about a dozen other men trying to get her attention at the same time and your texts just don’t stand out.  Even if you hit it off in person, you’re sunk in this day and age if you can’t make her like you over text.

So I want to give you 5 things you can do that will separate you from the pack, make her more attracted to you, and get you meeting her in person.

0:32 Save yourself in her phone as something fun
1:00 Send yourself a text as her after you have saved your name
1:35 Do not make things all logistical
2:20 Use callback humor
2:50 Get her excited about the plans you will make

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      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9cEVZ8XQ4M</link>
      <description><![CDATA[How Louis CK Makes Everything Funny

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:
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The humor breakdown I mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRjRgT8QQ3c


Louis CK is one of the most respected comedians in the world.  And part of it is because he seems so effortlessly funny.  There’s no big action like Jim Carrey or Robin Williams, no elaborately clever set ups, just simple truths that make audiences crack up

But it’s not that simple.  Because while the truth makes for good art, it isn’t always funny.  Louis CK has devised a way of delivering his stories and jokes in packages that are different from what most of us do.  And because of that he’s able to create hilarious moments from everyday commentary.  Today we’re going to explore 3 of Louis techniques that will make you make just about anything funnier

1:00 Louis CK times it where this Stephen Colbert clip shows
4:24 Louis CK repeats the punchline like in this Jimmy Fallon clip
7:27 Louis CK acts his jokes out like in The Tonight Show and more

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      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TT4UzQdDlQs</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Join The Email List By Submitting Your Email Below
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      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ub_cGEzAUTo</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Tai Lopez - Here in My Garage EXPOSED

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The “Here in My Garage” by Tai Lopez ad has achieved meme status on YouTube with over a million dollars spent to get it in front of your eyeballs.  And whether you think Tai Lopez is awesome or not, one thing is true.  You’ve probably never seen a YouTube ad more times or seen an ad that has generated more discussion, parody videos, and interest than Here in My Garage.  And all that implies something else: the ad must be working.  Meaning that Tai Lopez is making more than a million dollars worth of sales, otherwise, the money would just run out.

Which means that like it or not, something special is going on in these 4 minutes.

That’s why I want to break down the video to understand what is going on from a psychological perspective that gets people interested in buying Tai’s products.

00:54 Specific video production as in Here in My Garage lamborghini
04:18 The mechanism is done like when he mentions his mentors
05:14 Tai Lopez anticipates where the viewers' mind is at
05:42 Tai Lopez utilizes a real disqualifier in his products
07:24 Tai Lopez repeats the call to action multiple times

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      <title>The Real Life Superpower Of The Vlogbrothers</title>
      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t4_ffQpFiFE</link>
      <description><![CDATA[The Easiest Way To Make The Best Friends (Vlogbrothers)

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:
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Hank and John Green of the vlogbrothers are some of the most influential people on YouTube.  Collectively, they’re responsible multiple huge channels (including vlogbrothers and Crash Course, which just came out with Sociology) bestselling books and movies like the Fault in our Stars, Harry Potter inspired music and the YouTube conference - Vidcon.

In his video we'll cover the Vlogbrothers' (Hank and John Green) unique style of education as well as the genius way they build communities.

Link to John's video on depression: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ooCeoh6608

1:49 Attention first when you communicate as CrashCourse sample
4:58 Hank and John Green built a community they are part of
5:27 The vlogbrothers talk about what they believe
5:57 Nerdfighters share the same beliefs as Hank and John Green
9:39 The vlogbrothers keep their focus on other people

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      <description><![CDATA[Liars, Thieves, & H3H3
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Ethan and Hila from h3h3 are basically the Southpark of YouTube.  They parody the most outrageous things going on in the community, and despite the fact that they are primarily a comedy channel, they often manage to make a point about the way we ought to behave.  In this video we’re going to look at what has made h3h3 so popular. We’ll focus on Ethan in particular because he is on camera far more than Hila.

0:27 h3h3 often gets their point across using parody
3:54 h3h3 stands up for people like when Ethan & Hila was sued
5:38 h3h3 holds on to their principles even if there's lawsuit involved
8:09 h3h3 tells the truth and practices free speech

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Donald Trump recently made news with his 19 second hand shake of Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe.  I’m going to break down some of the more unique aspects on Donald Trumps handshake and then we’ll cover the more standard business shake - which many people habitually do incorrectly, creating an impression of weakness or overcompensating insecurity.  We'll also take a look at Trump's handshake with Justin Trudeau

0:54 Yank during handshake with Trudeau on the receiving end
1:13 Wrist bend and lift as Trump did with Prime Minister Shinzo Abe
1:36 Hand tap during handshake as Donald Trump still does in 2017

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Success is awesome.  Getting what you want is a wonderful thing in many ways.  But it has downside that almost nobody talks about and it makes us sitting ducks for confusion and unhappiness.

I make this video for 2 reasons, 1) to help you prevent against these things if you’re on the come up, and 2) to help you identify them in your own life if you’ve already achieved success.  Since we’re told getting what you’re aiming for is a good thing, we can become blind to the very common problems that come with it - or else just think we’re weird for having them.  So if you are successful, hopefully this video can help you solve some problems you might instantly recognize without ever having named.  And for the rest of this video, I am going to be talking about success in the professional sense, though I know these problems could occur just as easily with dating success, physical fitness success and just about every area of life where you can achieve your goals.

1:08 Success invites a comparing mind
3:42 Success can become a social crutch
6:54 Success can be a crutch for happiness

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Conan O'Brien has an extremely fast sense of humor and wit.  When we watch him interact on Conan on TBS or the Team Coco channel, he can seem impossibly conversationally clever, which is why he has had no problem entertaining millions of people for nearly 20 years in interviews and now his Clueless Gamer series.

But the truth is that there are principles behind the kind of sharp wit that Conan uses so often.  And while his years of comedy training have made him a master, simply understanding the principles and using them in your own life can make people find you much much funnier.  So let’s take a look at those principles.

0:48 Out of context analysis with Clueless Gamer as one example
3:39 Be specific like how Conan teases Kevin Hart as one example
4:36 See the doubling down here by Conan O'Brien and on TBS

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James Corden has the fastest growing Late Night channel on YouTube thanks mostly to the massive success he has had with Carpool Karaoke on the Late Late Show.

And while it is certainly fun to watch your favorite singers rock out to their most popular songs, a big contributor to the success of those videos is the dynamic James is able to create in such a short time.  He’s able to get people to open up and really enjoy themselves.  And if you watch closely, there is a moment where these stars who were previously bored or skeptical, seem to really begin to like James Corden.  James Corden’s magnetism comes from the fact that he is able to make people feel good, without losing their respect.  That is what we are going to learn how to do in this video.

01:44 Make your compliments more specific and direct
02:06 Push-pull compliment to avoid the vibe of butt-kissing
02:54 If tension arises when complimenting, follow up with a joke
06:01 For certain groups, don't get walked over by dishing it back out
07:55 Set boundaries at times too like what James Corden did here

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Friendships are some of the most important things in life.  Yet sometimes it can seem difficult to start friendships - other times friendships you have simply dissolve.  And that may be because you are doing something to sabotage them. Either having an idea of how to make friends or keep a friendship and relationships, you will surely realize something new in this video that maybe you haven't.

00:42 Lack of integrity in a friendship or relationship
03:43 Manipulating your friend with guilt
06:57 Being inconsiderate of your friend
08:40 Your values have diverged from your friend's

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“How can you stop giving a fuck?”  It’s a question I get fairly often and many times, the person asking it has Tyler Durden in mind (played by Brad Pitt), the cool bad boy from Fight Club that is the not giving a fuck ideal

I think it’s because when we watch Fight Club, so many of us feel like the Narrator, played by Edward Norton.  Sometimes we’re afraid to ask for what we want.  Sometimes we avoid confrontation.

And then we see Tyler Durden.

Tyler can’t be controlled by ads.  He can’t be threatened, because he’s not afraid of anything.  Men follow his lead and Marla continues to hang around even when he treats her terribly.  Tyler Durden is a shining example of someone who has everything we want without seeming to even struggle.

05:57 Care intensely about just a few things
07:30 Have a life philosophy with conviction
09:15 Distinguish the things that really matter
10:54 Care about other people to balance it

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      <description><![CDATA[How To Stop Caring What People Think

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Have you ever lied about an odd hobby you have?  Or maybe your job status?  Or your height?  Or even just avoided putting yourself in a situation in which you knew you were likely to fail?

Why did you do that?

Short answer: because you were embarrassed.

Embarrassment comes from trying to control how other people perceive you.  So instead of just showing the world your nerdy hobby, say you collect Beanie Babies, you go “I don’t want people to think I’m a dweeb.”  and you pretend you don’t have one.  The same process plays out with hobbies as it does with mistakes we’ve made, areas in which we are weak, and areas where we might get publicly rejected.  We hide what we don’t want people to know about us.

We conform to what other people would like us to be.




But that doesn’t have to be the answer:

Because there is another, more empowering mindset:

Instead of focusing on other’s perceptions and feeling embarrassed about what they may think…

Focus on whether or not you live up to YOUR OWN values.

That's what this video is about and that's how you'll learn to stop caring what people think about you.

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      <description><![CDATA[BEST FRIEND BRAIN

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So this is going to be one of those times where I share something I am just getting started on.  In fact, I stumbled across this idea this week.

I was reading this book recommended by a friend and one of the lines stuck out to me, it was “I’m trying to be a best friend to myself”

And I thought hmmmm - so many of the times when i have been upset in my life come from times when I’ve not been a best friend to myself.

I want to invite you to spend one week changing your thinking to be more of a best friend towards yourself.  I'll be trying the same thing :-)

2:49 Feel isolated mentally
3:56 Your best friend brain is solution-oriented
5:13 Best friend brain has high standards and gives you tough love
6:03 Your best friend brain is flattering

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So in the in February 2016, 9 months before the election I started making videos about Donald Trumps impressive powers of persuasion and in May, I made this video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LibRNYJmZ-I

The video talks about the specific things I saw and I recommend watching all of those, I’ll link to them for the specific things I wound up seeing, but I want to talk about the higher level thinking which led me there.  And it’s one of the lessons that I got in 2016.

Facts Come Before Beliefs

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      <description><![CDATA[Why PewDiePie Is Unstoppable
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Pewdiepie is the biggest YouTuberr by far, its not even close.  And with his recent milestone of 50 million subscribers, I thought it would be interesting to look into the factors that contributed to his massive success.  And obviously his enormous catalog of videos, and early entry into lets play genre contributed, but in this video we’re going to focus on the psychological factors that make him so unstoppable

And I promise you, even if you hate Pewdiepie or don’t yet know who he is, you can learn from his success.  Because he has tapped into the fundamentals of the way people work

We'll talk about how Pewds got away with not deleting his channel at 50 million subscribers and instead deleted the jacksepticeye channel, how his let's play videos capture attention so well and why he's likely to stay on top

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One of the unfortunate downsides of making positive changes is that people around you sometimes get negative.  It doesn't matter what it is. It happens with people beginning new fitness regimens. . It happens with people starting new businesses, And it certainly happens with people who follow tips on this channel to become more charismatic.  As they say, haters gonna hate.

In this video, you’re going to discover 5 tips to put haters in their place when they start chirping..

0:22 Ignore the hating, ignore the haters
0:50 Play along with passive-aggression
1:07 Special tip when haters say, "I could never do that..."
1:39 Share your values and concerns for people close to you
2:31 Find a community without haters

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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:
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Have you wanted something more than anything, but for the life of you, you couldn’t stay motivated to actually make it happen. For some people, this is sticking to the diet, and going to the gym. For others, it's starting a business and persisting through the difficult times.

No matter what it is for you, we all have something that we’ve not been able to achieve, and the reason that we often give ourselves is that we just didn't have enough motivation.  So in this video you’re going to discover 5 keys to game motivation so that you can accomplish more of what you really want.

0:26 Don't rely on motivation because motivation can be fleeting
1:22 Making decisions drains your willpower
1:57 Change your environment to save willpower
2:28 Set hard and fast rules
2:56 Use the moment of inspiration to commit yourself going forward

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Negan is about to cause his own overthrow.  It might not look like that from our last video, which discussed how effective his rule-based brutality was for controlling people, but he neglected one critical piece which will be his undoing.

In this video, we’ll cover how Negan is likely to meet his end.  The inspiration comes from CGP Grey’s recent video Rules for Rulers and of course the book it is based on The Dictator’s Handbook.  Both are definitely worth checking out, especially since I’ll be repeating some of the main points here.

0:32 Negan controls the keys to leadership and as a ruler
0:32 Negan distributes wealth to his inner circle as a leader
3:08 Negan minimizes key supporters as a leader and ruler
6:00 Biggest mistake of Negan which will lead to his doom
6:46 Although Negan could probably tell if something is amidst

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      <description><![CDATA[How Negan Rose To Power In The Walking Dead
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Negan is one of the most ruthless leader in the world of the Walking Dead.  He literally brings Rick Grimes to his knees.  And perhaps what’s most scary about him, is that people like him are not just dominant in social interactions (even over guys like Daryl) but they oftentimes DO become leaders in our own world, especially in times where security is so hard to find, like in the Walking Dead.

In this video we’ll break down what traits make Negan such a dominant force, why those make him a natural leader, and how you can handle those traits when you encounter them in real life - without the baseball bat named Lucille obviously.


By the way, spoilers through mid season 7 of the Walking Dead AND some graphic images, because we’re talking about Negan here.

00:30 Negan's body language plays a role
3:22 Negan makes the rules clear
5:38 Negan doesn't just punish, he also rewards
7:06 Negan builds a cult of personality

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      <description><![CDATA[Why Instagram Is Ruining Your Life
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If you were an alien looking at the Instagram news feed, you would have to conclude that most humans spend their lives in leisure traveling and smiling all day long. You assume that there were far more honeymoons and fights -- far more moments of laughing so hard that you cry than an actual crying and far more successes than failures but none of that is true.

Our lives are not represented by the photos that we share. We are pretending and it comes at a dire cost. There's been a lot said about the dangers of consuming social media. After all, the sites are designed to be more addictive than crack. The articles do little more than waste your time and the misrepresentation of how people live can lead to depression with the state of your own life but those are the easy criticisms.

The real danger of Instagram and other social media sites is not in what we consume but in what we create. Think of it this way -- every time you post a photo you are contributing to the creation of a persona. Kind of like in a video game -- you post a photo in front of the Eiffel Tower and your sophistication stat goes up, you delete a photo where you look bad and your beauty stat goes up, or you share a funny meme and your humor step goes up.

2:14 You'll be more unhappy the more you care about those likes
2:43 You sacrifice your own experience to promote your identity
3:16 You outsource your happiness to the masses
3:38 Curating an identity stops you from investing in you
4:08 Curating an identity limits you

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      <title>Conor McGregor: How To Be Confident Without Being Arrogant</title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Conor McGregor: How To Be Confident Without Being Arrogant
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Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes in the world.  He displayed that confidence in his flawless victory over Eddie Alvarez in UFC 205.  But even though Conor McGregor's confidence is one of the best traits you can have, arrogance is one of the worst.  And the line between the two can be blurry. Some people are worried that if they become confident, they’ll cross the line into arrogance - or that even if they don’t other people will perceive their new confidence as arrogance.


In this video I want to help distinguish between true confidence and arrogant bravado

0:52 Don't talk if you can't back it up
1:01 Confidence is a statement while arrogance is a scream
2:55 Achieving more doesn't mean you're better than other people
4:05  Arrogance doesn't share the credit of success
5:04  Confidence is secure because it's based on reality

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2) **A sample of you dubbing any of our videos** - I did not mention this in the video, but I realize it's necessary to find people with both the drive and the equipment to do this.  One minute is enough.

Just a note, not everyone who applies can manage a channel :-)

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The BIGGEST Mistake People Make In Dating

There is one thing that ruins more relationships than any others.  And while the examples I give are from my own life, this is true for men and women, straight, gay, it doesn't matter.

That thing is neediness.  It often looks like obsessiveness, meaning you start imagining what it would be be boyfriend and girlfriend after one encounter, discussing kid names, giving larges gifts, talking to them about your future together in early dates, or when you spend all day thinking about why they didn’t get back to that text you sent.   And it’s repulsive.  And it’s the biggest thing that messes it up right after you meet someone you really like.

And I want to give you three simple things and one harder thing that you can do to fight neediness - because if you’ve got it, it can kill a relationship before it begins.  Trust me, I’ve experienced it plenty of times. Keep in mind this specific advice is for early in a relationship

0:51 Trying to contact them every single day
2:37 Pleading when they can't meet up
3:55 Changing your schedule to fit theirs

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After family and friends, there is nothing in my life that has had a bigger positive impact on me than books.

And today I want to the 3 most important I’ve ever read.  I recommend each for different reasons, but I recommend them to anyone who wants to create an exceptional life for themselves.  And rather than tell you what they’re about, I want to share what you can get out of them if you read them:

Four Hour Work Week
How To Win Friends And Influence People
6 Pillars of Self Esteem

0:36 The Four Hour Workweek
2:30 How To Win Friends And Influence People
4:39 Six Pillars of Self-Esteem
6:13 Summary of all the best books for your personal development

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      <description><![CDATA[Debate Analysis on Trump and Hillary Third Presidential Debate
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The second and third presidential debates between Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton are in the books and everyone is talking about who won but today, we're not talking about policies or strength of argument. I want to analyze who won strictly from a charisma angle so let's get into it.

The first thing to note is that previous presidential debates, especially the primaries, were defined by zingers and there were a handful mostly from Trump. There was a different vibe in this debate though since the audience couldn't laugh out loud at Hillary and there were longer uninterrupted stretches to answer questions.

Instead of punchy one-liners, these debates came down to two main principles. This is an analysis on the final debate and the election is getting near the end!

0:57 Credibility -- being an authority on the issues (Hillary won)
1:08 Use of specific numbers to build authority (tie between Trump and Hillary)
2:13 Specificity does not equal truth
2:29 Comfort in answering difficult questions (I'd say Clinton won, though Trump had a rougher go from the moderators)
6:25 Conviction and congruency being major contributors to charisma

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      <title>Why Jimmy Fallon Seems Fake</title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Why Jimmy Fallon Seems Fake On The Tonight Show
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Jimmy Fallon’s hosts the most watched Late Night show on TV (the Tonight Show).  And in an industry where most games, stunts, and celebrities are interchangeable, that says a lot about his likability.  But Jimmy is not universally adored.  A glance at the YouTube comments shows that some people find him fake.  Specifically they think his laugh is fake.

In this video we’ll look into the things that may make it seem that way to some.  Oddly enough, it’s also his biggest strength.

Long story short, I think it isn't (it's probably just a habit Jimmy picked up while working at SNL) but what's most interesting is how his laughter affects the people around him - and what we can learn from that "easy laugh"

6:59 Watch videos that make you laugh
7:27 Paying compliments by laughing at someone's joke
8:32 Celebrate stupid little things
10:02 Doing goofy things that you find personally amusing

Funny videos I like to watch:
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      <title>3 Ways To Be a Little Happier Every Day</title>
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      <description><![CDATA[3 Ways To Be  Little Happier Every Day
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A few months back I made a video about a break up and ever since then I have been very interested in happiness, because at the time, it was hard for me to feel as happy as I was used to.

I began experimenting with different happiness exercises and measuring how they made me feel, I tried a whole bunch and still have lots more to go, but I want to share 3 that work really well and very rapidly.

So whether you’re having a tough time, or just generally want to be happier, give these exercises a try

0:36 Create space for subconscious problem solving
2:22 Second is tied in to the third one relating to gratitude
2:51 Practice negative attitude by appreciating horrible things
4:22 Practice gratitude towards others
6:27 Recommendation to be grateful and achieve happiness

750words.com (Free freewriting for first month, then $5/month)
3pages.fr (Free freewriting forever, in French)

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What do you want to do that you keep procrastinating?
https://goo.gl/X1QoIA

Maybe you’re even putting it off right now by watching this video.  Keep it in mind, because by the end of this video - my goal is to get you doing that thing.

Because if you’re like me, you’ve found it comparatively hard to hit the gym, write a thesis, make a sales call, and most recently making these YouTube videos. And comparatively easy to playing video games, browsing reddit, and watching old episodes of Supernanny.

But if you understand why procrastination happens, you’ll realize there are three levers you can use to trick yourself and train your brain to stop procrastinating.  So let’s do it.

0:26 Three psychological triggers for procrastination
0:35 Lack of clarity is the first trigger for procrastination, overcome by setting daily deadlines
1:48 Overwhelm is the second trigger for procrastination, overcome by creating Tiny Habits
2:58 Delayed gratification is the third trigger for procrastination, overcome by rewarding yourself immediately after the fact
4:14 An extra procrastination tip to make everything work better

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      <description><![CDATA[Trump v Clinton - Who REALLY won the debate?
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The first Presidential debate is over and everybody is weighing in on who won.  Was it Donald Trump?  Or Hillary Clinton? But I have a different question:

How did each candidate perform during the debate from a charisma perspective?

This is critically important.  When people don’t know who to trust, we oftentimes just choose the person they “have a better feeling about”.  You might not like it, but it’s the truth of how we work.

So if you want to know how undecided voters will vote in the 2016 presidential election - you can’t ignore the charisma angle.

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      <description><![CDATA[Ellen Degeneres' Tips To Making People Instantly Like You
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We all want people to like us.  And Ellen Degeneres seems to have that down to a science.

Ellen Degeneres is one of the most likable hosts on TV.  And it’s largely due to the types of  jokes that she makes.  Almost all hosts are funny, but Ellen’s style of comedy has a way of instantly endearing her guests to her.

Today we are going to talk about the most common types of jokes that Ellen makes, how you can use them to get people to immediately like you, and some habits that you can work on to just generally be funnier throughout your day.

1:10 - The kind of jokes that make people sad, ones that Ellen rarely makes
2:08 - Self-deprecating jokes make people feel comfortable around Ellen
3:10 - Poking fun at subjects that people are not insecure about allows Ellen to crack jokes without upsetting people
5:20 - Making ego boosting jokes that make other people feel good, makes Ellen someone that people want to spend more time with
5:59 - Ellen can also joke around and just simply be silly

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      <description><![CDATA[How to tell if someone is lying to you
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How can you tell if someone is lying? How many times do you think that you've been lied to today? Go ahead and take a guess because the answer might shock you. Studies show that on the low end, that the number of lies is somewhere around ten times. And on the high end, that number could be up to two hundred times in just one day. You are being lied to constantly so this is a video on how to tell if someone is lying to you.

What’s worse, your lie detection capabilities are definitely not 100%. In fact, studies show that they could be anywhere from 50% to 75% wrong.

This video is meant to put the odds back in your favor because there are things that you’re probably not taught that can help you become a human lie detector. And I want to cover those four things plus touch on some examples of some masterful liars getting caught in the act. If you’ve enjoyed this one, go ahead and make sure to subscribe to the channel. We have tons of videos on how to boost your charisma, your confidence and of course, your ability to read social situations. So if you never want to miss one of those, click Subscribe and you’ll see us on your homepage every single week. I hope that you’ve enjoyed this video and I look forward to seeing you in the next one.

Key points to tell if someone is lying:

0:46 How can you tell if someone is lying? Body language
1:40 Good liars know how to lie so here's "blocking" as a follow-up
2:51 The liars "duping delight"
4:36 The "redirection" of the lie
6:10 Test the chronology of the lie

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      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxZ6hx37sRY</link>
      <description><![CDATA[How to 10x Your Productivity, and Achieve More With Your Time!
Interested in learning more about Charisma University?
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In many ways, I consider myself a lazy person, which doesn't mean that I sit at home and I stuff my face all day while watching bad re-runs. It just means that I like to protect my free time. I want to do the things that I want to do. And achieve the specific things I want to achieve. So when I found out from the beginning of this year to today I've 10x my productivity in this Charisma on Command business, I was very happy because that meant I got to spend more time doing things I love and less time doing things I felt like I had to.

This isn't just about making money. This is really about how you spend your life. It's about becoming productive. So if you're interested in more of the good stuff, and less of the things you have to do.

Go through these 4 steps to achieve more with me right now. (And make sure you write them down because that's how you're going to get the biggest productivity results from this)

0:46 Identify your goal to achieve (and the biggest driver)
1:45 Write down everything that is 'supposedly' taking you to your goal
2:51 Eliminate and simplify in order to become productive
4:56 Find and eliminate your 'Herbie' in order to achieve more
7:21 A review of the 4 steps to increase your productivity

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      <description><![CDATA[The reason why Hilary Clinton is beating Donald Trump
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At the end of July, Trump was at a dead heat in the polls against Hillary Clinton, but in just a span of just a week, things turned on their head for Trump and according to polls, he's currently a long shot to be President.

What's most interesting is that Trump didn't change much in that week. Rather, Hillary's team effectively countered techniques that Trump has been using for months. In this video, we're going to look at what persuasion mistakes Trump made, how Hillary capitalized on those mistakes, and what both candidates need to do to win.

So let's start by exploring how some of Trump's most effective weapons have been turned against him.

0:33 Trumps "Others have said..." technique
1:33 The start of Trumps troubles
3:57 Hilary started to portray Donalds exaggeration as facts
5:00 The end of Trumps political incorrectness
6:10  Showing the human side of Hilary Clinton

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      <description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like the fear of rejection is holding you back?...

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Like maybe there's someone that you would have really liked to ask out, someone that you've had your eye on for a long time, but when you think about asking them out you think about them maybe saying no. Rejecting you. So you don't even want to try. Or maybe you're an artist of some kind and you'd like to share your art, you'd like to publish it, you'd like to maybe even pursue it as a career... for me, this was writing.

But, when you think about being criticized or rejected for that art, you don't even want to throw your hat in the ring. If that's something that you can relate to, the good news is that you don't have to continue to relate to it because there's people in the world that are basically immune to rejection!

They don't feel it in the same way that you might, and they don't fear it. And the only difference between them and someone who has issues with rejection that were kind of fears it is the way that they perceive it in their mind and that's what we're covering today.

How can you make those quick little rejection tweaks? They're gonna make rejection kind of feel like something that just rolls off your back like nothing at all!

Rejection Mindsets and Strategies:

0:57 Think of a time that you have been rejected exercise.
1:15 Disassociate yourself from the rejection.
2:44 Broaden your perspective and goals of being rejected.
4:20 Success is a numbers game (roll the dice).
5:50 STOP using the word "Rejection"

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      <description><![CDATA[Get INSANE Confidence Instantly! http://bit.ly/2Lkbn1q

Nate Diaz has changed Conor McGregor since their UFC fight.

Conor McGregor looked unstoppable. He beat everyone that he fought, and predicted many of his victories with surprising accuracy, and had unshakable confidence... But when Conor fought Nate Diaz things didn't go as planned.

The question is how has that loss impacted McGregor's confidence? He's unlikely to share candidly, but if you know what to look for you can see cracks in Conor's confidence.

Hopefully by the end of this video you will know how to read anyone in your life and know what they are really feeling instead of just what they are saying.

So let's begin with Conor's tells:

0:41 Conor McGregor's trash talking at every opportunity
2:00 Conor's confidence demonstrated through gesticulation
2:40 McGregor imposingly takes up space within every room
5:35 The new style of trash talk from a defeated McGregor
6:00 A subdued Conor compared to a confident Conor
7:30 A look at Nate Diaz's confidence and pre-fight predictions
9:12 A comparison between confident Conor and a hesitant one (post his fight with Nate Diaz)


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      <description><![CDATA[Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence:  https://goo.gl/kaWl1i

How To Give An Amazing Speech Without Using Notes

Public speaking is terrifying.  But at some point in your life, no matter how much you avoid it, you’re going to get called on to give a speech.  It could be a presentation for work, a best man speech at a wedding, who knows.  And if you can’t give it without notes, you’re at a huge disadvantage.  Because not only does it come off as less authentic if you’re constantly referencing notes, but if the powerpoint breaks, you’re screwed.

This video is going to to teach you how I regularly talk for 10-20 minutes, with minimal memorization and how you can learn to public speak without any notes too.

0:32 - Outline your speech in memory friendly form
2:00 - Write out everything on paper (or computer)
2:43 - Subvocalize your speech without using visual cues
4:25 - Memorize the first and last sentences word for word




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      <description><![CDATA[Are you shy? Discover how to not be shy in social situations within 60 seconds of first feeling it.
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This is video on overcoming shyness will be useful to you if you have had the experience of getting locked up in your head in a social environment.  You go from feeling comfortable and fine in one group to suddenly not knowing what to say.  You draw a blank and when you can think of something, it’s just stupid and goes over poorly.  Your hands don’t feel right anywhere.

So you don’t wind up hesitating and missing out on opportunities a networking events with new friends or even a first date.

Overcome Social Anxiety and Shyness by:

0:45 Stop trying to do anything and just exist (free yourself)
2:45 Overcome your shy voice that is in your head
5:30 Prepare for interaction to free yourself from social anxiety
7:30 An easy sentence to break through your shy pattern


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      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19d3bvyGvTc</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Arnold Schwarzenegger's bodybuilding, political and acting successes were no coincidence.
Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression:
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Arnold Schwarzenegger is one of the most impressive success stories of our era. He won Mr. Olympia 7 times and put bodybuilding on the map, then he became the highest payed actor of his time, then without any elected experience Schwarzenegger became the governor of California.

This kind of success tends to alienate people, yet Arnold has almost always inspired love from the masses. Today we are going to talk about what Arnold did that made his success something people were inspired by despite the fact that he was never particularly modest.

Watch how Arnold moves from Admiration to actually being charismatic:

2:20 Arnold Schwarzenegger never takes himself too seriously
3:17 Arnold turns a bragging story into a likeable one using humor
6:14 Schwarzenegger is almost endlessly positive
7:08 An insight into how Arnold cultivates positivity in his life
10:00 The powerful "You and I" Switcharoo

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      <link>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVYuMhjk58o</link>
      <description><![CDATA[How to approach and flirt with women that you like without being creepy.
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The first ever study of creepiness was done just a few weeks ago, and it had a really interesting result that men and women think of creepiness differently. Men think of creepiness as taxidermy, scary movies and clowns. Women have those same associations plus one more... Women also associate creepiness with men.

Somewhere in the course of every mans life while he was flirting he has done something creepy. The reason is that men don't have the same understanding of creepy that women do when flirting.

How to Flirt Time-Stamp Guide:
0:47 The Goldilocks rule of eye contact when flirting and approaching
2:04 Warm Up to social interaction (start making brief eye contact with everyone)
2:44 Add a smile, wave or high five and speak to the women who smile back
3:50 When flirting combine your compliments with jokes to release tension
5:05 1-3 Second touches on the arm are enough to indicate interest without being creepy
6:25 Pay attention to how receptive she is to physical contact and respond accordingly
8:05 Critical Flirting tip avoid making her feel trapped by positioning your own back to the wall

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3 Mistakes That Butcher First Impressions

You might be butchering your first impressions without even realizing it.  Not cause you’re a self-absorbed jerk, but because a lot of the most well-intentioned advice you’ve received is incomplete.  And if you don’t understand the fine points of when that advice applies and when it doesn’t you might miss out on hitting it off with your next close friend, business partner, or even boyfriend or girlfriend.

So I want to shed some light on 3 common first impressions mistakes I see that all stem from good advice gone wrong.

1) Thinking that harmony “getting along” and not causing waves is the most important thing
2) Avoiding disagreements and focusing only on commonalities
3) Thinking "fake it til you make it" applies beyond non-verbal communication

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Muhammad Ali's Insane Confidence

Muhammad Ali was was one of the most outspoken, self-promoters in sports history.  He said he was GREATEST all the time. You would think that confidence would be construed as arrogance, yet Ali is one of the most beloved sports icons we’ve ever known.

Today we’re going to look at what him such a remarkable man, how he was supremely confident without coming off as too arrogant, and how we can make the kind of impact he did on the people around us.

1.  Trash talk like a pro
2.  Be confident, but over perform the arrogance
3.  Win the frame games and lead in interaction
4.  Stand for something



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      <description><![CDATA[Interested in learning more about Charisma University?  Click here: https://goo.gl/QaKqLh
You’re going to spend thousands and thousands hours learning over the course of your life.  What’s crazy is that despite the fact that we have all those hours sitting in the classroom, learning musical instruments, martial arts, business, language, whatever - no one teaches us how to optimize that learning experience.

But there are principles that you can apply to any area of life you want to improve in. From beating people who have been training waaaaay more than I have in ju jitsu to watching our business grow exponentially in the last 6 months.  So think of an area of your life that you want to start crushing the competition in and apply these 5 tips to learn 10x faster

1. Measure the smallest possible victory
2. Drill one thing at a time until it is unthinking habit.
3. Shorter periods of study every day beat cramming
4. When you are starting, try a million different things
5. Debrief your successes and failures

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      <description><![CDATA[This is contains the most important thing I have learned in the last year. https://goo.gl/QL2tCL  For some of you, I’m sure it will be the most important video I have ever done.  In order to do it justice I need to tell you some personal stuff about what has been going on in my life.

It occurred as much of life biggest learnings do, when things went wrong.  Specifically, I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half.  We loved each other and still do, but we had very very different ideas of how we wanted to live our live
At first, I felt like a zombie.  And then I felt sad.  And then I bawled my eyes out.

I started looking for ways to feel better after the breakup with my girlfriend and I came across something I hadn't expected: love and self-love.  In short, this video is about self love, what it is, and why you need to work on it.  Here are the three actions steps as discussed in the video

1.  Interrupt the negative pattern with eye scrambling
2.  Feed yourself self love
3.  Extend that love to the person you least want to extend it to

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Why The Starks Will Always Get Betrayed

The Stark men have a grim history of betrayal.  Ned Stark by Petyr Baelish (Littlefinger).  Robb Stark by Roose Bolton and Walder Frey.  And Jon Snow by his Nightswatch brothers.  Jon Snow got lucky with the resurrection, but his leadership abilities are still dismal.

This isn’t by accident.  In fact, I blame Ned because all of the Stark men (including Jon Snow) share some of his flaws which make them doomed as leaders.  They try to be good men, to do what’s right, but in the end they fail - this video will cover exactly how and what we can learn from them.

1.  Ask: What do you know about the people around you, and what does that tell you about their motives?
2.  Ignore what people say.  You must look to their past actions to determine what they’ll do in the future.
3.  To motivate people, align their interests with your own
4.  Make sure the people on your team know the strategy, not just the tactics
5.  A good leader repeats the mission and makes sure that people understand why things have to be done
6.  Paint a vivid picture of what they stand to gain AND what they stand to lose

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      <description><![CDATA[I’ve been thinking a lot about the bad decisions I see people make, and even the bad decisions that I have made and I see a common pattern.  First you have someone who is relatively uncertain, in a transition period of their life, and then they take the wrong advice.

In this video, I want to clarify how to spot bad advice so that you don't wind up trudging down the wrong path for months or years.  Here's what I've learned

1.  Only take advice from people who have the kind of life you desire - you'll know because of what they've achieved, what the people who have followed their advice have achieved and what testing their recommendations proves.

2. When you have aspirations that no one around you has lived up to, you need to find a digital mentor.  Get online, read a book, just find the person who has done it and study their path.

3.  Develop a circle of friends who are supportive of your happiness, even if that means change.  Cut the ones that only want you in status quo

4.  Pick teachers that have strong morals.  You can't learn a skill set without also picking up a life philosophy, so be careful who you let in

Hope that helps you filter out the bad advice and move closer towards the kind of life you dream of :-)

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How To Be The Life Of ANY Party - feat. Jim Carrey

If you want to be the life of the party, there are really only two things you need to do

First, you need to be able to captivate people who you might not know

And second, you need to be able to make people with senses of humor laugh

The problem is you might not know how to captivate strangers or make people with different senses of humor laugh.  Wit might get some people but be lost on others.  Amazing storytelling can hook a group, but it can be hard to get people to listen in the first place.

So in this video, I want to cover 6 easy ways to become the life of the party and make people with lots of different senses of humor laugh. These are things ANYONE can do, you don’t have to be a comedic genius

To illustrate these principles, we’ll be looking at Jim Carrey, because his style lends itself to learning quickly.  We'll learn to:

1) Create a character
2) Use specificity
3) Commit
4) Use surprise
5) Find the funny philosophy

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What’s crazy is that a year after winning the lottery versus using the use of their legs, people from both groups rate their happiness as the same.




This is called impact bias: we overestimate which things will make us happy and for how long.

What’s crazy is this isn’t just a quirk of lottery winners -  so many people spend their lives in a pursuit of happiness that is not that impactful and fleeting.  You get the a job that you desperately want that once you arrive isn’t as glamorous as you thought,  you get a phone, a computer, or a car, and for 2 weeks you notice how new and cool it is, but before you know it it’s just another thing.

There are ways to avoid this trap though.

I have spent literally years studying people, their happiness, and applying the lessons to myself.

What you see is that there are certain approaches that work and certain that don’t.

There are 5 things and I’m calling it the happiness ladder, because I tend to see it correspond to phases of our lives and people tend to move from one level to the next in order.  My hope is that this video gives you a shortcut to the top.

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Stress sucks.  Not only does it take an emotional toll, but if you live long enough with stress it can literally kill you.

So it doesn’t matter, if it’s from your job, your relationship, your financial situation, or getting in an airplane, for your health and your sanity, you have to know how to reduce and even eliminate stress.  I want to cover the 3 levers you have to stop stressing out, but first you need to the big misunderstanding people have about stress.

Whatever stress you might have is NOT coming from the activities in your life.  It’s coming from our habits.  It’s coming from a mindset, which is this:

Stress comes from needing something to happen that you don’t think you can control (and that you think could go badly).

The good news is that understanding stress like this gives three options to combat it.

1.  Stop needing things. Fear setting can help with this
2.  Increase your feeling of control. Use tree planning as opposed to stick planning.
3.  Create the habit of optimism.  NLP swish patterns will help here.

Happy stress hunting!

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Why Donald Trump Will SMASH Hillary Clinton

Donald Trump is going to beat Hillary Clinton and be the next President of the United States.

Let me be clear.  This isn’t a pro-Trump video.  I’m not voting for Trump.  But after watching hours of footage of both Trump and Hillary, I have seen an incredible pattern that convinced me to bet $1000 of my own money that Trump would be president.  Even though I am not voting for him.  That’s how confident I am.

Not because I want him to, but because he is head and shoulder above Hillary when it comes to campaigning and you may not have realized why it’s working so well.

So let’s rewind one year to see how Trump got to where he is and how that can show us where he’s going.  Because as soon as Trump announced, a lot of people thought it was a joke.

First he was seen as a joke....
Then he started making outlandish statements, dominating the news cycle....
Then he took down his republican rivals one by one, naming them Weak Jeb, Little Marco, and Lyin' Ted...
And now he has set his sights on Hillary Clinton.

Hillary, in the meantime, has demonstrated an ineffective strategy.  Her slogan, "Love trumps hate," has Trump's name in it.  Her talking points typically come back to the fact that she is a woman, which Trump has labeled "playing the woman card."

It has caused her to slip to the point where she and Trump are at a dead heat in the polls.  Some even have him up.

If this continues, it won't even be close come Election Day in November.

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How To DESTROY Self Doubt

Self-doubt can be crippling.  And it doesn’t matter if the doubt comes from within or if other people’s negative comments begin to affect you.  Sometimes you can get into a spin cycle of doubt and negativity that absolutely crushes your confidence.

What’s worse is that we “know” we shouldn't doubt ourselves.  We know it’s not helping us. But that doesn't change the way it feels.  The negative comments still affect us.  Or our own self talk continues to hold us back so that we don’t perform like we know we can.

In this video I am going to teach you 5 things that will help you deal with self doubt, especially when it’s the kind of self-doubt that just gets played over and over again in your head without a way out.  I recognize that all the motivational speeches in the world haven’t made this problem go away so I want to give you things that are battle tested things that actually change  how you feel.

The 5 tips are

1.  Exercise to change your state
2.  find the lesson
3.  Change your environment and filter
4.  Embody the removal of the negative feelings
5.  Get righteously pissed

Hopefully those help you regain your confidence and sanity and get you back on track.

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Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people.  Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief.  You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.

But we won’t stop there

Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve.  And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over.  And there is a science to it.

So let’s get into

1. Increase self-awareness
2.  Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)
3.  Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site: http://www.microexpressionstest.com/m...
4.  Identify common patterns
5.  Make predictions based on people's body language
6.  Experiment in your own life

Hope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people.

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6 Ways Iron Man is Cooler Than Captain America

The rivalry between iron Man and Captain America has reached a fever pitch with Captain America: Civil War.  And in the movies (Winter Soldier, Avengers, etc.) and comics both are incredibly effective leaders.  What is undeniable though, is that people follow them for different reasons, because Iron Man is much cooler than Captain America.  In fact, Captain America can be kind of a dweeb

In honor of Captain America: Civil War I wanted to look at the actors behind these 2 iconic characters.  Because whether Iron Man has bled into Robert Downey Junior or vice versa, the fact is that they have both mastered the art of witty banter and cool demeanor.

Chris Evans and Captain America, still make great leaders but in a very different way.  They're much more good-hearted and likable.  So let's take a look at how some tiny little habits make Robert Downey Junior and Tony Stark come across as cool while Chris Evans and Captain America come off as something else entirely.

We'll explore the different ways that they use sarcasm, joke, and pay attention to other people.  And in the end hopefully we can resolve this Civil War peacefully ;-)

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Why Tyrion Will Win The Game Of Thrones

Game of Thrones is extremely violent.  Yet despite all the bloodiness, most of the power that you see characters like Tywin Lannister or Daenerys Targaryen wield is not through physical force.  Rather it comes from mini-conflicts of body language, eye contact, and tonality.  Specifically, there is a battle to control the 4 W's.

I believe the person to win the Game of Thrones will be the one that best takes control of these 4W's.  And one of the best candidates to win is Tyrion Lannister.  He may never sit the Iron Throne himself, but I believe that given his incredible command of power, he will be by the ruler's side.  Here are the four W's that make Tyrion so special

1)  When: In this scene Daenerys completely controls the when as Tyrion and Jorah are there at her leisure.  She also takes command of the silence.

2) Who: Tyrion is great at making himself appear more important.  Tywin Lannister is also great at this as he snatches the power from Joffrey, despite the fact that Joffrey Baratheon is king.

3)  What: Tyrion does an excellent job of controlling what Dany focuses on

4)  Where: Daenerys' power is completely dependant on where she is - when she finds herself in front of Khal Moro in season 6, it's basically at zero

So those are the four W's that I believe will win to Tyrion winning the Game of Thrones. Hope you enjoy!

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When we make positive changes and pursue self improvement, we sometimes attract negative comments from our friends and loved ones.  It doesn't matter if you start taking your fitness seriously, starting a business, or implementing the charisma tips you see on this channel, whenever you start to grow there are inevitably people who would like to see you stay the same

In this video I want to teach you how to deal with negative comments and hopefully turn that negativity to positivity.   There are 6 tips I cover are

1.  Use the toddler technique
2.  Purposely misinterpret passive aggressive questions
3.  Answer their questions with vulnerability
4.  Use the 1 sentence rebuttal
5.  Don't recruit; live it
6.  Find one other person

Those 6 things have been a huge help in removing negativity from my own life.  I hope you find them helpful in removing negative comments and negative friends from yours.

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Game of Thrones - Why Tyrion Can't Be Killed

Tyrion Lannister has a knack for staying alive.  He is constantly getting into trouble and talking his way out.  But Tyrion's genius is replicable if you learn how he thinks.  And one of the first thing he thinks of is what other people want.  That is how he manages to continue through season after season in Game of Thrones.

We cover 3 ways to figure out what people want by examining how Tyrion Lannister survives through Game of Thrones:

1.  Cold reading - watch how Tyrion cold reads Bronn .  Contrast that with Lommy, who never even attempts to cold read Polliver before he kills him

2.  Listening - Tyrion listens very carefully to what people say.  When the pirates take him hostage and mention they will sell his "manhood" to the cock merchant, he comes up with a clever reason for them to keep him alive.  Cersei provides a foil to this in how she behaves with Joffrey.

3.  Asking people for their stories - Tyrion asks the members of the Night's Watch for their stories, learning about Grenn and Pip.  Jon Snow, on the other hand, just assumes that they hate him because he is better.

If you put those 3 things into place you might not win The Game of Thrones, but you can still display some of Tyrion's genius.

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Didn't think I'd get to do this soon!  We just hit 100,000 subscribers earlier this week and I wanted to thank everyone who has watched, subscribed, and shared our channel.

Aside from just extending our thanks, we're offering 10 of our subscribers a chance to win a brand new module on Dealing With Conflict.  It will cover how to come out of those difficult situations getting what you want while still maintaining a strong relationship.

So if you're interested in participating, here's how:

1) Share your favorite video of ours on Facebook
2) Make sure to tag Charisma on Command

That's it.  We'll add your submission up to 3 times for 3 shares over the next week.  The giveaway ends Thursday April 21st.  We'll randomly choose the 10 winners then and contact them in the following days.

Thanks for making this possible :-)

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Adele: How to Be Authentic

Adele might be the best singer alive.  Her music is soulful and moving.  What’s fascinating about her is that the “honesty” in her music extends to her interviews and offstage interactions.  So in this video I want to explore what makes Adele come across as so genuine. We'll watch her interviews with Jimmy Fallon on the Tonight Show, James Corden on Carpool Karaoke on The Late Late Show, and Fredrik Skavlan on Skavlan.  We'll also listen in on her song "Someone Like You" to watch how she delivers it with such pure emotion.

Learning where that feeling arises from will make it easier for you to spot fakers and it will make it possible for you to become more genuine yourself, which will make people you barely know trust you and want to get to know you better.

James Corden And Adele Singing Carpool Karaoke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nck6B...

The three things that Adele does so well that will we cover are:

1)  Smiling Genuinely
2)  Being Honest And Congruent With Her Feelings
3)  Praising Others Openly And Freely

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Game of Thrones: How Power Really Works

Game of Thrones is all about power games.  What many people don't realize is that behind those power games are clashes of the way people see the world.  There are clashes of frames.  The people who can control these frames (like Tyrion Lannister and Tywin Lannister) tend to win over the Game of Thrones people who struggle more often (like Robb Stark).

There are tons of ways you can use this understanding of frames in your normal life.  We'll look at three in this video

Note: the spoilers go up only through season 4, so if you haven't seen all the way to season 6, you are still good to watch

1)  Breaking frames for persuasion (Tyrion vs. Shagga)
2)  Frames in insults (Tyrion vs Robb Stark and Robb Stark vs. Jaime Lannister)
3)  Frames to create options (Tyrion vs. Tywin and Tyrion vs. Lysa Arryn)

Let me know how you feel about these fictional breakdowns!   I have never done one in the past and would love your feedback.  Especially let me know if you like Game of Thrones related breakdowns, because there is a lot more I could potentially cover (like Tyrion's charisma and persuasive abilities)

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6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic

When it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff.  Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic.  But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions.  Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally.

In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs.  If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you.

Those charismatic beliefs are

1.  No matter what, I will be okay
2.  I care more about my character than my reputation
3.  I have impeccable honesty and integrity
4.  I don't need to convince anyone of anything
5.  I share my purpose proactively
6.  I go there first in humanizing interaction

If you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life.

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The Secret Of Bill Clinton's Incredible Eye Contact

Bill Clinton may have the most famously captivating eye contact of anyone alive.  On all sides of the political spectrum, people have noted that when Bill Clinton spoke to them, it felt as if they were the only person in the room.  Even Newt Gingrich, his political nemesis, said he was "one of the most charming, effective people I have negotiated with."  It may have won him the presidency in the 1992 town hall debate against George Bush Sr. and Ross Perot.

A huge component of that charm and charisma comes from the engaging way Clinton makes eye contact.  And that is the main focus of this video.  We'll explore how he is able to convey many emotions with his gaze.  Especially a sense of power and genuine connection that come from his intense, narrow eyes.  You'll also see how he breaks eye contact in a way that makes people feel heard and be able to contrast that with George Bush Sr. who lost the 1992 debate and maybe the election because of the way he handled this question.

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The 5 Charismatic Habits Of The Rock (Dwayne Johnson)

Dwayne Johnson (aka The Rock) has been successful in 3 very different careers.  He was an excellent football player at Miami (until he injured himself).  Then he made the transition to the WWE where he became famous as "The Rock."  And then he made an even more incredible career leap to movies, starring in the Fast and Furious franchise.  Now he is moving into the comedy real in a new movie called Central Intelligence with Kevin Hart.

To be successful in all of those careers, particular the second two, where he was the most successful, you need a great deal of charisma.  The wrestling fans need to like you.  People need to want to see your movies.  And Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson has been able to accomplish that.

So in this video we explore what makes Dwayne Johnson so charismatic.  Starting back in his WWE days we can see exactly how he learned to gesticulate, to command the attention of a crowd and then moving on, we see how he also learned to show leadership and vulnerability.

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Elliott Hulse's tip for a deeper voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0

Original video: https://youtu.be/wiOwqDmacJo?t=2m14s

3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate Anyone

Neil deGrasse Tyson is an amazing speaker. He's one of the select group of science educators that appeal to mainstream America. Truly, some of the topics he covers are fascinating. But the truth is that the majority of his appeal comes from the way in which he speaks.

In this video, we cover three simple vocal tips that will make you a more captivating speaker. You'll learn how to use your voice in a way that gets people leaning forward and hoping you tell them more.

Those tips are, in short

1. Take longer, deeper breaths to lower your voice
2. Strategically use silence to hook people's attention
3. Develop vocal range in terms of speed, cadence, and style

Enjoy, and let us know if you're enjoying the throwback videos!

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4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your Charisma

I often get asked what things people can do on a day to day basis to improve their charisma.  There isn't a gym or dojo that you can go to to work on your charisma and confidence.  But there are ways for people to take certain types of classes that will indirectly boost their confidence and increase their charisma.

The four things that I have see had the most impact on my confidence and charisma were

1. Improv comedy
2. Toastmasters
3. Martial Arts
4. Mini experiments in normal social environments.

Taken together, those four activities account for almost all of the real world practice I was able to get in developing my self-confidence and charisma.  So if you're interested in signing up for something that is likely to have a huge positive effect on your charisma, start with this list.

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Robin Williams' #1 Tip To Becoming Funnier

Robin Williams was absolutely hilarious.  His mental quickness was second to none and people often commented on what a raw natural comedic talent he was.

The truth is though, Robin Williams honed his skills over many years.  And one of those skills in particular can be applied by anyone to make themselves funnier almost immediately.  It's a humor technique called playing a character and it can make even things that are unfunny seem hilarious.

So check out this tip and use it in your own jokes and stories.  I can't promise you'll become as funny as Robin Williams, but if you do it with conviction, you'll see people respond with way more laughter than you may be used to.

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Trump vs Brand: The Power Of Word Choice

Donald Trump and Russell Brand are two very influential people with devoted followings.  Yet they have nearly opposite styles of speaking.  Trump uses simple words.  His announcement speech for his presidential bid came in at a 4th grade reading level according to the Flesch - Kincaid readability test.  Russell Brand, on the other hand, speaks using words that you're unlikely to ever hear in normal conversation and may need a thesaurus just to understand.

So after watching how effective Trump has been in his campaign I began to ask myself: which is better?  Big words or small ones?  Short words or long words?  Have I been mistaken in trying to expand my vocabulary?

In this video, I explore the different speaking styles of Trump and Brand and try to answer those questions.

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Our video on Conor McGregor received a takedown notice despite the fact that everything on it was commentary and fell within the bounds of fair use.  Which means it was ripped off YouTube fraudulently because the owner of one of the clips has too much damn power.

This abuse has been happening on YouTube more and more.  Fair Use is getting destroyed and it sucks.

I don't know how, but I'd like to figure how to fight back rather than just by complaining about it.

If you have any ideas and you want to reach out to me, you can contact me via YouTube messenger or via email at charlie@charismaoncommand.com

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The Core of Self-Confidence

Self-confidence is one of those things the we recognize when we see it.  But we don't usually know how to build it.

The reason is because we often misattribute self-confidence.  We feel good when people give us compliments and assume that's where self-confidence must come from.  After all, if we heard those nice things all the time, how could we not be confident.

But while praise and compliments may help temporarily boost self confidence, they don't last long.  The leave us searching for the next hit.  What truly contributes to enduring self-confidence is building self-esteem.  Because nothing inhibits confidence like low self esteem.

Self-esteem can be a tricky concept, but it really boils down to how you feel about you.  If you are proud of the way you are living, you'll have high self-esteem.  If you're not, all the compliments in the world can float that sinking ship.  Your have low self esteem.

This video explores a few of the fundamentals of self-esteem so you know how to build your self-esteem from a rock solid foundation.

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Kevin Hart's 3 Secrets To Hilarious Storytelling

Kevin Hart is one of the funniest men alive.  Whether in interviews with Ellen Degeneres or George Lopez, or his standup specials, he tells absolutely hilarious stories.  In fact, most of his standup routine consists of him telling stories.  But he does it in such a way that hooks an audience and never lets go, partially because he is able to include so many jokes.

It's not that Kevin Hart's life is inherently more interesting than the rest of ours.  He is just a better storyteller.  The good news is that storytelling is not something you're born with or you're not.  Anyone can learn to tell the kind of funny stories that made Kevin famous.  You just need to know the most important pieces.

While there are many storytelling techniques and styles that will enable you to captivate an audience, ultimately, the best storytellers share a few things in common: they get attention, they commit, and they are constantly refining their craft.  These fundamentals can be used in any kind of story but they are especially useful for funny stories

So if you want to know how to tell a story better or you are just are interested in what makes Kevin Hart's stories so engaging, check out the video.

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How To Find Your Passion

People often write me asking what they should do with their lives.  They lack a sense of purpose.  They have this sense that they should "follow their passion" but they don't really know what it means.  Plus half the world is telling them that following a passion is stupid or misinformed.  They encourage them to develop the skills they are already good at and that society values.  That way they can get a good job and get paid.

I'm all for developing skills that can land you gainful employment.  But as to sticking to making that your sole focus?  Screw that.  And as for sticking only to what you're already good at?  Screw that too.

Start with what excites you.  If you care enough, you'll put in the work to become fantastic in that field.  And the way the world is going, you can get paid for most anything (hell, I make money talking about how celebrities exude charisma!)

This video answers the question "How do I find my passion?"  It is there is to help you overcome some of the hidden doubts you might have.  The things that might be holding you back from discovering what your passion really is and committing to developing it.  Ask yourself these 4 questions and write down the answers.  Then pick the common thread and do it more.  You'll be a happier person for it, and you might just get a chance to earn a living doing something you love.

1.  What makes you lose track of time?
2.  What do you spend money to do?
3.  Where do you fear judgment?
4.  What makes your heart race?

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Donald Trump's Debates: 5 Mental Tricks You Didn't Notice

Donald Trump has proven himself to be a master persuader.  His unlikely rise to prominence in the Republican primaries has riden on the fact that he knows how to work the media during interviews as well as his performances in the GOP debates against the likes of Jeb Bush and Ted Cruz.

When watching the debates, many of his detractors criticize Trump's apparent lack of substance.  For instance, he ducked Megyn Kelly's question about sexism with a joke about Rosie O'Donnell.  He seems to repeat buzz words more than other candidates and often justifies his positions by referring to other people who support his stances, rather than defending them outright. While this may seem like weak arguments, Donald Trump's debate strategies actually align perfectly with the way humans think and process information.  For that reason, Trump's arguments tend to sink in more than his opponent's (like Jeb Bush and Ted Cruz) do.

In this video we'll look at the top 5 relatively unknown psychological truths that Trump exploits to get his point across during interviews and debates.

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Could Donald Trump really win in 2016??

It seems like a ridiculous question, but Donald Trump's 2016 campaign has defied all the expectations from the pundits.  Initially considered a joke candidate, he now leads the Republican pack in most national polls and the polls for the most important caucuses.

At the same time, a huge portion of America would be mortified if Trump were to win.  He's made remarks about Muslims and Mexicans that many have found offensive and those same people are baffled about how he could be the Republican frontrunner.

It's no accident though.  Trump has an incredible amount of charisma and an intuitive understanding of human psychology.  We'll dive into how he's used it to garner support in what many thought was an impossible campaign.  We'll see Donald Trump can take the nomination for presidency in 2016.

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One of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date.  Why not?"  That's what this video covers: how to get a second date.

There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be.  Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future.

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      <description><![CDATA[Elliott Hulse Motivation Breakdown: How To Give Advice So People Listen (2016)  https://goo.gl/qdy2E6

Elliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker.  He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives.  And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time.  Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off.

We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice.  Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded.  We can change that.  By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give.  So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change.

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Everyone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement.  But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change.  We find excuses.  We don't follow through.

This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed.  It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be.

When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier.  Enjoy :-)

Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeister
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Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate People

When Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy.  Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership.  He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad.

But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable.  Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though.  In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches.  The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives.

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Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating Stories

Jennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world.  Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises.  She is considered extremely funny and grounded.

Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do.  And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells.  In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past.  They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her.

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So I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!

Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week.  Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.

Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)

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Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time.  He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty.  That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac."

Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon.  In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident.  Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well.

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Russell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women.  That's a problem.  Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong.  Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.

The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women.  It's not the ONLY way,  but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.

So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting.   Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell.  They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.

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Learning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school.  In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview.

This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection.  There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions.  You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.

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How To Influence People (And What Not to Do)

Want to know how to influence people?  Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do.  This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden.  You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say.

Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them.

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How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way)

This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh.  You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing.  You don't funny or complicated jokes.  In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating.  But hey, it works.  Even Ellen can't contain her laughter.

So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you.  You're more likely to make a friend.  So when you want to make somebody laugh, remember: it doesn't take a brilliant joke.  It just takes someone who is really into the joke they are telling!  (featuring Ellen Degeneres and Julia Roberts)

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People like people who are like them.  When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.

That's the short answer of how to get people to like you.  In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone.  From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements.

Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you.  Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know.

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It can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is.  People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill.  That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink.

So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't.  Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?"  Hopefully these musings help :-)

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As soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you.  This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure.  The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect.

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      <description><![CDATA[I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic.  And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! https://goo.gl/RyWH6V

It seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work.  But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something.  Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window.  Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity.  We sacrifice self-improvement for the the quick fix of a drunk buzz.

So I know it may seem unrelated, but stopping your habit of drinking is one of the fastest ways to boost your charisma.  Plus there's a lot of other benefits of not drinking that you get to enjoy as well, like waking up without a splitting headache :-)

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https://goo.gl/SaV6sp   Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people.  As president, there is very little ha can do on his own.  So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.

In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior.  Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace.

If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCk

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Public speaking is hard.  We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience.  https://goo.gl/IpBEnO

In this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds.  The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word.  And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action.

Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-)

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Watch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes.  It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl.  After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you.

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How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk, Robert Downey Junior Style

We all have had those situations in life where we KNOW someone is trying to get to us.  Maybe they keep asking embarrassing questions.  Maybe they put us down with backhandedly.  We know they are attacking us passive aggressively, but it feels like there is nothing we can do about it.  Many of us don't know how to handle this kind of conflict.

In this interview with Robert Downey Junior, Krishnan Guru-Murthy continually asks about his history with drugs and jail.  In the context of the interview, the questions are out of line, yet Guru-Murthy continues to probe.  This video will show you how Robert Downey Junior handled the situation and the exact steps that you can take to deal with these kinds of passive aggressive attacks.

The good news is that you don't have to be a jerk, nor do you have to be a total door mat.  You can politely be assertive and then exit the conversation by following the 5 steps.

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Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About You

See how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks.  The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated.  When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident.  And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking.

So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands.

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Will Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups

Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma.  Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in.  You might find it hard to hold people's attention.  This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower.

The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups.  And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example.  He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation.  Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life!

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There's a TON that goes into being good at public speaking.  Some tips include speaking in the present so that people can follow your stories emotions, gesticulating, speaking with emotion, and on and on.

But in this video, I cover a little known trick to telling stories that captivate.  Because if you can captivate your listener, you will be seen as an amazing speaker.

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Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)

Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive.  His son, Jaden, is not.  In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why.  It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.

In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group.  Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in.  The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation.  Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around.

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      <description><![CDATA[How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command

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How To Smile Perfectly For Men

Will Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet.  How does he do it?  And can you learn how to smile better?

You can.  There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all.  Two of them are in your direct, immediate control.  And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real.  When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly.

So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips.  They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine.

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Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:
Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter.  He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more.  And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting.  After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.

Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to.  And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does.  So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life.  That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.

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How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton.  The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters.

When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact.  But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps.  Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-)

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Body Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown

Tony Robbins is a master of body language.  These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations.

By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out.  He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video.  If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony.

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Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma

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